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unable to have a meaningful sex life
July 26, 2009
8:05 pm
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can you tell me how I can have a normal sex life after being abused by my brother. I am unable to be satisfied I shut down before I get into it.

July 26, 2009
9:22 pm
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I would strongly suggest therapy with someone who specializes in sexual abuse as well as support groups for adult survivors of sexual abuse. I'm so sorry you are in this situation in the first place. Always remember that none of this is your fault. Your brother is sick and needs to be reported to the authority.

Please keep posting and seeking help. Call the sex abuse hotline and they can point you in the right direction.

July 28, 2009
11:13 pm
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jo62,how about saying something about this experience?when it began?how old were you?how old was your brother?how long it lasted?what were your emotions?how do you feel now?

Talking about it may relief you,especially when you find people who listen (here).

Remember that we can't change the past,it is part of what we are now.so we have no other alternative than to accept it.

May be you need to learn how to relax and how to change some of your thoughts.Talk here about your thoughts.

Take care.

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