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Two loves one big problem
May 24, 2006
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bonni
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Hi Pugs,
I hope your wife knows how fortunate she is to have you.

best wishes,
bonni

May 27, 2006
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Will let you guys know how it goes. been very interesting so far.

May 31, 2006
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Well, been about a week and now the wife isn't sure if she can deal with the fact that I had a relationship with another woman. It was ok that she had an affair or two but (as she says) there was no "relationship" it was just for sex where I had an actual relationship. She says that every time were together she thinks of me and the other woman and is not sure if she can get over that. Meanwhile I have broken off the relationship with the gf and broke her heart. But yet when wife is drinking we have outstanding sex. I just dont get it folks. she is 41, (early menopause). I'm losing my mind! Wife doesn't want to end our relationship

May 31, 2006
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Dear Pusg01, I think it is natural for your wife to have these thoughts like these. Afterall you do indeed have these feeling for your GF and she does know and feel this, whether or not you choose to be with your wife again. But she does know of your commitment to her. Your wife probably drinks because maybe she feels less inhibited and her way of proving herself in bed. It will take her a lot of time to adjust with this "new" relationship. It doesn't always come so easily. But you made a choice and now you have to live with that choice. allow her the time and space she needs to renew the relationship. it will happen. And don't talk to the ex girlfriend or make contact, that will not help her or your wife. She needs to move on too.

June 2, 2006
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I would think if wife is serious about the NEW relationship she would be interested in coulselling dont you think. Or is she just confused about the old memories of the "good likfe"?

June 5, 2006
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Well good news she is working through her wall of protection. And is slightly getting over gf. still throws out "digs" but not attacks, progress being made, slightly.

June 5, 2006
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I´m happy things are working somehow.

Only time and effort of both of you will make you live together in harmony.

All the best

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