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twinsforlife
November 1, 2006
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okay, i too, am very worried about her...I find her so evasive, almost running away constantly from us, avoiding us...I don't want to make her feel that way at all...We are not judging her at all for the ex being there...We love her...We need her...Do you think, mich, that maybe we have been too needy? I tend to do that...omg, maybe that is it...maybe she just has so much to deal with and we are taking this personally mich...

BUT, she just seems so troubled...gosh, I wish she would just open up to us...She seem to want to help but not receive it...

LL, IF YOU READ THIS, PLEASE DON'T GET MAD AT ME, I LOVE YOU AND ONLY WANT TO HELP YOU, OKAY...MICH AND I ARE WORRIED AND CONFUSED...

okay, sis, i am so confused now, give me your thoughts, head is splitting...your twin

November 1, 2006
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I am not trying to make your headache worse...Go back through the last two days of posts that you and I have written to her, there is something that makes me nervous, and see if you can figure it out.

I worry about the needy thing too, GG, BUT, I don't know that she does. I think that she wants to be there for us. I have tried to really limit what I say for the last few days about what is on my mind and heart for EVERYONES sake. I just think that she is dealing with A LOT of her own crap and I think that we need to consider that as not against you or us or whatever. She needs some time to process her own thoughts too. And she isn't as quick to say I need you as we are. Nor, is she as cyber-affectionate. So therefore, we just need to hold her close and let her talk as she is comfortable. I know that she isn't worried about what we (you and I) think of her. I think we have made it painfully obvious that our love is unconditional. And we are NOT here to judge her. I believe in my heart that she knows that. I think she maybe needs some time. BUT, do read over the last couple of days of our posts and see what you come up with that concerns me...

I love you and I will talk to you soon. Put a smile on that face honey, you've got me...

Scared

November 1, 2006
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I did not understand that part about what she would do to the other woman being stable stuff when I first read it...but I will go back and read, but it will be about 30 min...have to discuss history now

November 1, 2006
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And by the ways girls I would never, ever, ever, ever, ever, do something to another woman like I mentioned above...once I am feeling *stable* again I'll feel guilty for even having that thought go through my mind...that was just one example of how my mind goes to dark places there are not normally me.

"don't have a choice in the matter, would it be before I take myself down?"

mentioning and exN

Mich, I am really hurting now (please let me complain, it was hard for me to read all of that, even called the dr. office and I never do that) and anyway these are statements that worried me...The first one worried me the first time I read it and had no clue what it was about, but thought it wasn't meant for me...

Please share, can't think right now...I AM SO WORRIED ABOUT HER...I LOVE HER DEARLY...

November 1, 2006
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mich, really stressing right now, please talk to me...

November 1, 2006
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Did you make a Dr. appt?

GG, you are looking way too deep into some of this. There is a question that I asked her, and you questioned the same thing at one point that was NEVER answered. It just makes me sad. I think that she can handle herself I just hope that when she is ready to talk that she will. Did you read the post from her on the last thread. That kind of explained "some" of what I was talking about but not really. I really am not trying to play head games with you, as you have enough going on in your head right now. BUT, I am thinking that I may be worried about nothing. NO big deal. We can worry about her as we will, but if we are worried about her, I think that she is probably feeling the same about us. Anyways, read the VERY last post that I put in our old thread if you get a minute...

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November 1, 2006
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okay, but it would be nice if you just came out and told me what you were thinking, probably thinking the same...

My next appt. is the 13th at neurologist for new meds, etc. thought it was the 7th...that is too long, head hurts too much...My pre-op is the 10th in Houston...want to cancel that so much...Anyway, I called to see if I can get in earlier than the 13th, but no can do! They are going to call me back about some kind of help though, hopefully...bad last two days...(really not trying to whine mich, but no one really cares around me, omg, want to cry...control, control)
going back to read AGAIN!

November 1, 2006
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love you, I hope that they can do something for your head....and it is ok to whine. I am good for listening..

November 1, 2006
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went back and saw your thread burial and laughed, needed that,,,it was cute, then saw that LL had replied to you....did you see that???? let me know...I still don't get what you want me to read and I can't read anymore sister, so spit it out okay.

After reading what she wrote, I want to go get her and take her away, really...where she can think and relax w/o HIM!!!

Hurry and get back to me...Cluster headaches are crap, shit, don't know many more bad words...

November 1, 2006
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It is ok, I need to watch my mouth because I am a bad influence on you. I thought you would find that cute..the burial prayer. I just had to...it was funny...! I had seen what LL wrote, which answered some of my questions and added to one of my concerns. As soon as I find her, I will just ask, but I don't want to post the question until I have found her. Then I will let you know what I am thinking and probably being worried about for nothing....

November 1, 2006
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now you are playing games with my mind, spill it now

November 1, 2006
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girls, girls, girls, what is going on? Mich...spill it lil sis : ) Are you two concerned about me??

November 1, 2006
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yes we are concerned, we love you so much...but mich is starting to make me mad,,,,not really,,,can i tell on her LL???

November 1, 2006
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WHAT IS GOING ON GIRLS??? I keep checking the computer and getting no work done at school...25 minutes and get to go home, yippee!!!

WHERE ARE YOU TWO???

November 1, 2006
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Okay, now I won't be at a computer for an hour...I feel like I have been left hanging...not a happy camper!!! I had better have a note from my twin and big sister soon!!!

November 1, 2006
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Love you GG-

November 1, 2006
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Girls I was sleeping...So sorry, LL, this isn't your thread:) Well, it is but it is not...

November 1, 2006
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I am just giving you crap LL, I am just concerned about something that you have been hinting at and yet ignoring and I am afraid that I have gotten to a point that I am just reading into it....Does that make sense? But now I am afraid to ask you, now that I have found you.

November 1, 2006
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well ask Mich..

November 1, 2006
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LL, are you still around?

November 1, 2006
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LL,

Now I am just almost scared and NOW I just feel really stupid,,,,So I am just going to go re0read the whole last thread and see what I come up with...

November 1, 2006
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Yes Mich I am here trying to type something up to perhaps clarify a litte more...please don't feel stupid, I think my next posting will explain a little more...

November 1, 2006
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Okay, I am not happy now...am I invisible or what???Mich, we are getting ready to have our first fight..Spill the crap...I don't care...we have to be free to feel...to express...it is all out of love for our big sis...

I am going to cry if dr. office doesn't call in next 20 min...because then they will be closed...

November 1, 2006
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LL are you still here?

November 1, 2006
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yep, for a few

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