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tryingtoheal
August 6, 2009
4:35 am
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Dear T2H,
I am with you in spirit. I was 16 when my English teacher in HS abused me. When my Dad found out, he cried. A couple of months later, he died, very suddenly. After that, an uncle I had always loved, who was divorced, invited me to NY for a visit. I looked on him as a father figure, but he had other things in mind. It was horrible. I never told my mother (it was her brother). A few months later, my little sister who was 11, went on a sailing trip with the same uncle and my mother. She woke up in the night and found my mother and her brother having sex.

There are some awfully messed up people out there, but you are stronger than them because you realize what your uncle did is wrong. The sooner you deal with it the better. Stand up for yourself. There's no way your mother would be angry with you. She is the adult in charge and it's her job to deal with this. Make that clear to her.

My heart goes out to you and I am sending positive thoughts and love your way. I have three grown daughters now who are all in happy relationships. I was able to use my bad experiences to guide me while raising my girls. You will be able to do that too some day. Stay focused and positive. You have the right to be happy and you will be, but you must work through this.

Your uncle must be confronted. He has broken the law, committed a horrible offense toward another human being and he needs to be punished or he will continue to take advantage of others.

I'm here if you want to chat.

GJ

August 6, 2009
10:12 pm
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Thank you GJ,

I want to get better but i am afraid it is going to rip apart my family and life. I am afraid to get authorities involved because he was one. I am so afraid my family will send me off because they can't handle me. i know there is no good time to take care of it but i don't feel like i am ready but i also feel like i am getting close to giving up on life.

i know it is not fair to let him keep this power over me.. to let him get amusement from my misery.

i am tired of being alive and not being able to live.

why is it soooo hard to tell someone?

thanks GJ for the support

-T2H

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