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trying to heal.........
February 4, 2006
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coconutlime
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I was married for 10 years and divorced now for 3 years. We have two beautiful children together. He has been clean now for a year, after trying to commit suicide. This past year has been full of pain. Even though we are divorced we have been emotionally together. just recently i told him i needed to concentrate on myself. After all the past years of pain, I need time and I don't know why I feel bad about that. I've never concentrated on myself before. It feels strange. Thanks for listening

February 4, 2006
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congratulations!
I am working on that, still in the divorce, I was hoping the roller coaster of emotions would end when the divorce was over.
I know it is the time to focus on myself, I wish I could do better...but all we can do is one day at a time.

I wish I had a stbx that was motivated enough to help himself and not 'self-medicate' himself with alchohol.
Good luck to you..
tell me how it goes!

February 5, 2006
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thanks for the encouragement! I recently learned that I have to be the one to end the roller coaster because he never will. I thought moving out of town before would do it and I also thought divorcing him would do it and it still went on and on. Its very difficult drawing boundaries with him especially after the suicide attempt. Keep me informed.

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