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Trying to get back out there
August 11, 2006
4:39 pm
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I was in a abusive marriage for eight years.
I finally left him for the last time and currently in the process of a divorce. I'm having a hard time getting my life back on track and socializing. I still care about him and feel lonely but, I know it's for the best. How can I get him out of my head and move on?

August 11, 2006
4:48 pm
st regis falls, ny
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there is a book, mars and venus starting over...good one.

but honestly, either a support group for victims of domestic violence or a therapist who specializes.

you need to "relearn" how to trust men, as well as learn to move on from him.

there are no easy answers, unfortunately.....and counseling would be the fastest route to recovery and PREVENTING you from repeating the same "lesson".

August 17, 2006
7:31 pm

memory, good for you for getting out of an abusive marriage. it takes guts! so be proud of yourself.
how do you start over? have no idea, I'm going throught the same (different reasons). One day at a time, that's all I can do.

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