Avatar
Please consider registering
guest
sp_LogInOut Log In sp_Registration Register
Register | Lost password?
Advanced Search
Forum Scope


Match



Forum Options



Minimum search word length is 3 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters
sp_TopicIcon
trying to do the right thing
March 8, 2005
1:53 pm
Avatar
infinity
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I'm sitting here thinking I should pack my things and go. I feel so guilty but I know if I try to talk to him he will get angry and I don't want him to think badly of me. We have both tried for so long to make it work but really need to make my self work. I want to leave a note to avoid any anger. Why can't it be cordial and kind knowing that we love each other but aren't good for each other. I know we are at times but we have so much to deal with an ADHD child who isn't mine. The stress he feels trying to care for him. My inability to help due to the child's resentment that I am not his mom. I have been in his life for 4 years and can't get through to him. His own dad will just take off and leave me with him because he can't deal with him. I've suggested counseling but he won't go. He drinks to escape from it and I find myself encouraging it to a point because than there are no confrontations. Really unhealthy way to live. Do I just leave?

March 8, 2005
3:09 pm
Avatar
dmurphy
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

infinity

I am sorry that no one has posted yet. My wife and I are separated right now and it hurts me to say this but it is something that I really needed to wake me up. I am finding out things about myself and working on my own problems and I never would have without this time apart. I would say to talk to a counselor or clergy because they can give you better advice. If you do decide to separate please make it a point to tell him the exact problems and not to dance around any opf it. It has taken my wife 9 weeks to tell me certain things because she did not want to dump too much on me at once. I would have been so much better off just knowing what the problems were because I can't fix what I can't see. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Forum Timezone: UTC -8
Most Users Ever Online: 247
Currently Online:
45
Guest(s)
Currently Browsing this Page:
1 Guest(s)
Top Posters:
onedaythiswillpass: 1134
zarathustra: 562
StronginHim77: 453
free: 433
2013ways: 431
curious64: 408
Member Stats:
Guest Posters: 49
Members: 110907
Moderators: 5
Admins: 3
Forum Stats:
Groups: 8
Forums: 74
Topics: 38534
Posts: 714189
Newest Members:
819Zeed, odin83, sendlv, ViolentFighterBrownCaveman, kbrfDazy, traceyob69
Moderators: arochaIB: 1, devadmin: 9, Tincho: 0, Donn Gruta: 0, Germain Palacios: 0
Administrators: admin: 21, ShiningLight: 572, emily430: 29

Copyright © 2019 MH Sub I, LLC. All rights reserved. Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | Cookie Policy | Health Disclaimer