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truly trying to change
January 24, 2005
4:34 pm
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hello im the mate of ineedtolove.
i just got home and she showed me your site. first let me thank you all for trying to help understand people like me!!
im really trying to let her know that i want to change not only my lifestyle but my life.
i love my baby very much, and it kills me to see her like this. all this because i didn't or couldn't stop.
i've read all of your responses and although they were very imformative, i need someone to respond to me whose been where i am now.
how did you keep up the strength to stop and also help your mate through her own hell

January 24, 2005
4:42 pm
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i dunno about having both of you here, it makes it a little hard,
but i firmly believe that those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing,
so be an open book to her if you want her to trust you,
let her know where you are at all times and expect her to have her suspisions, its normal for someone who has been lied to to not trust, you have to give her alot before she may believe you again,
so like i said, be an open book, even when you think it is intrusive

January 24, 2005
4:49 pm
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i think keeping up the strenght is working the program just like people in AA have to, or anger managment, or
overeaters anony...there are so many addictions out there, and if you truely put your heart and soul into it, find a sponsor and work the program and be HONEST with YOU and HER...things should improve. I wish you both luck.

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