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Took him off email, cell phone, address book,OMG!
September 18, 2005
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Lass
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I have two more things that he gave me to get rid of. I had a friend in the AA program tear up and throw away his business card for me, which I couldn't do by myself.

I will write an amends letter and give it next Saturday, and be done with mr. affair.

This is like a big hole in me, but I trust God will fill it.

Please circle up around me, let me know I'm safe and sound?

September 18, 2005
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(((((lass)))))

Hang in there. You are safe and sound and loving yourself very much right now.

September 18, 2005
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Lass,

I'm sorry I can't stay. I am falling asleep in my chair...its 2:30AM here and I am fading fast.

ZZZZzzzzzzzzz

bonita

September 18, 2005
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(((lass))), put me in the circle! I'm so proud of you, and I know you can do this. Without contact the healing is so much easier!

September 18, 2005
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Out of sight, out of mind - GOOD FOR YOU! You will grow through this, God will make sure of that. Just have faith in Him and what he has in store for you. Pray for the strength to make good decisions when He presents them to you. You'll be FINE!
You're on your way, with everyone right next to you!

September 18, 2005
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Lass, it will be allright. Just took some steps of my own. We can't see the future but we never will if we keep living in the past.

September 18, 2005
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I am present and accounted for, living in the moment I am in.

I am sad, but firm this time.

I want off the hook.

I want to be free.

Next Saturday night is the AA birthday meeting for September...the one mr. affair invited his old girlfriend to be the speaker for. He is moving back into her and his hometown, and out of my town and fellowship hall. I am glad God is doing for me what I could not do for myself.

It is only two more months and he will be gone and I won't risk running into him at all. Til then, I'll just lay low and hit daytime mtgs.

But I AM going to get my 18 year chip and listen to this speaker chic, and I will be a woman of power under God. I will be a lady. I will play no games. I will clean up my side of the street in an amends letter which I am writing tonight (AA 10thstep).

God help us all to grow and heal and become women after His own heart. I pray for mr. affair, too, that he have all I ever hoped for myself, that I may be free of resentment toward him.

Thank you all for your kind and loving words. They brought me tears.

Love, Lass

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