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Too shy around my b/f
July 19, 2000
1:22 pm
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Hi, I am kinda young, I'm only 14, just to let you know. Anyway, I have been with my b/f for a little over 2 months now, well it would have been longer but earlier I broke up with him because we never talked, but then 5 days later I asked him back out because I like him a lot and now he talks a lot more and he said that he is glad that we worked that out. Anyway, now I am the one that isn't talking, and I really need to change! I mean communication is a HUGE part of a healthy relationship and there isn't much here. I really like him a lot, and I wish that I would let myself open up to him, or even just make small talk with him, but I can't. I think that part of the problem is that I started having boyfriends in 3rd grade and I have had about 10 boyfriends all together with in the past 5-6 years. I guess that I am a really sensitive person and my heart has been broken so much, I don't want to open up because I know I will get hurt! I was wondering if anyone out there could help me out on this. I would greatly appreciate it. I mean he is a really great guy, and he is being very patient with me not talking much. Thanks!

July 20, 2000
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Don't cringe when I say this, but you are just now coming into your own right. 14 is such an important age of discovery, about yourself, others and the world at large. One of the things I had trouble with when I was 14 was being able to have "silly" conversations with boys. I said what I had to say, and if I didn't have anything "intelligent" to say, I remained quite. Some said I was antisocial, I say I was just secure with myself enough to know that I didn't have to always have something to say. Don't rush yourself, and, above all else, stay true to yourself. Never allow peer pressure to steer you in a direction that doesn't feel right for you. Staying true to myself is the most peacefilled feeling I have ever come to know...

July 26, 2000
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look, it always takes time for different people to open up to b/fs or g/fs for some it is just sooner than others, but don't rush yourself and don't force yourself to do something that u don't want to do. it just takes time and im sure he understands.

July 27, 2000
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I just wanted to say thank you to the people that helped me with this. I talked to him about it, well actually I wrote it in a note and gave it to him when he came over, but anyway, he told me that he used to be the same way and he gave me some really good advice. Now I am finding it easier to talk to him about almost anything. I am really glad that I found this web site, everyone here has really helped me a lot! thanks again!
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July 29, 2000
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Hi!! I don't think your "problem" really has to do w/your past ex's. I think you've just got a small communication prob w/your bf, but you already know that. Just make small talk w/him by talking about things he likes, his friends, tell him stories about what you did that day, or just simple little things like that. If you start something small, I'm sure you both will think of more stuff to say about that topic, or something else to talk about, ya know!?! Well, I sure hope I helped, good luck!!

August 3, 2000
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WELL I DONT THINK ITS FROM THE LAST B/F'S AT ALL I THINK YOU ARE USEING THAT SO YOU DONT REALISE THAT IT IS SOMETHING ELSE.WELL MABY IT IS BECUASE YOU FEEL WEIRD.

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