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Too much presure....I'm about to break!!!
February 18, 2005
12:16 pm
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Hi Lost,

How are you doing? So he has a acold, big deal (sorry I am not feeling sympathetic about him right now). Does he ever take care of you, when sick? Mine never did, but when he was sick he thought the world should stop for him.

So his answer was 'it's just on paper'? What the heck? And then says, he will leave if you want him to? More threats. And he would try to take the keds with him. I bet? These may be threats, but no one threatens without having some inkling of taking that action if they see fit.

You might do well to start documenting what he is saying and the dates. But make sure you hide it well or give it to a friend for safekeeping. ?This saga is exactly what I went thru and it is not fun. It makes your head spin. And it takes so much energy from you, and end up walking on eggshells.

Wounded, Not far fetched at all!!!! My STBX (soon to be ex) had been taking out new life insurances, annuities when we could not meet out budget!!!!! Now I find out he was trying to keep it if divorced as he had me sign a pre nuptual agreement the day before we married. Now after filing for divorce after 17 years of marriage, I am still fighting this unfair document, that is not even a true pre- nup!!!!Also found out after the ninth year of marriage (just found out now snooing into OUR file cabinet) that he had his married sister on one and 84 year old mother on another as his beneficiaries!!!!

Mine was trying to get me fat....gave me 4 separate i pound boxes of chocolate and a bottle of perfume for my ast Christmas gift, as if anyone needs that much choclate, and I told him not to get me any of it, please.

Hope you have gotten contact thru the Women's Center for information and help? Please, please, keep posting and please be careful what you say and keep record of what is going on there for yourself.

We are all here anytime,

Sew

February 18, 2005
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I am like an emotional train wreck!! One minute I miss him desperatly (even when he is here) the next minute I want to lash out and punch him!! I mean what the heck? What is wrong with me here. Why can't I do what I would tell me to do if I weren't me? I guess that is what they mean about abusive relationships. Some of us are too week and too stupid to do anything about it. I sit sometimes and think "Is this realy my life?"

February 18, 2005
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Are any of you familiar with music from lincinpark? There are too songs that really express my feelings called pushing away and i'm about to break. I am having a supper bad day today I guess cause I don't know if he will stay the weekend or leave and I hate to be alone especially since I have 3 little ones and no car when he leaves!!

February 18, 2005
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Did anyone see Oprah today? It was about Husbands that kill their Wives some of the warning signs are really scarry to me considering I have gotten them first hand.It's like I am being given the signs to do something b4 it's 2 late. I don't know what I am gonna do.....

February 19, 2005
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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!! I HATE MY LIFE!!!

February 19, 2005
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I did not see it, but my girlfriend told me about it. Why women murder men because they want to get rid of them and men murdeer women cuz they want to keep them? That one? I think it has an element of truth in the reasoning, but I don't always take things like that as pure absolutes to the answers. I think there are more reasons that that, than to generalize it as an easy answer.

February 19, 2005
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Is this thread stretched out for everyone else, or is it just my screen? Maybe best to start and new thread? this can happen sometimes.

February 22, 2005
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it's everyone so I will start a new one as part two

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