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To: onedaythiswillpass Happy Mothers Day!
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One Day,

I made this video for you

 

 

Read the Full Page: To: Onedaythiswillpass Happy Mothers Day! | Questions, Advice & Help 
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   I did promise to make pics of the ocean for someone who did not acknowledge Cool

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I hope someone checks the date of this video and the date it was posted on this threadLaugh

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Ocean Boi,

I have no interest in going to your link or anywhere with you or with anyone else for that matter.

You have yourself a great day & enjoy the beauty of humanity.

 

One Day

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I never asked you to go anywhere with me nor would I. You made a comment about some pics I said I was going to post of my trip to the ocean.

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Seriously, look back at your posts and count how many times you promised to send these pics or these pics to show me.  I don't make people promises that I never intend on keeping.  I don't speak to people using the words "WE", meaning you and I.  Do you really suppose that I want to go anywhere with you or anyone?  Sadly you have no concept of my life, what I have seen, who I have had to be & presently what I am up against.  One Day I will be able to leave here & when I do, no one is coming with me, no one will ever find me, and no one will ever touch me again.

 

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One Day,

Seriously, I took a trip to the ocean for only ONE reason and that was so I could take some pictures to show them to you hoping they would make you happy. As I took these pictures I was hoping you would tell me what kind of flowers they were and tell me what kind of rock that was.Thought it would be nice to talk about something pleasant and interesting for a change. When I tried pushing that little film icon located on the blue navigation bar going accross the screen I was unable to upload the pics. In the name of trying to show you that I do keep my promises I had to upload the pics onto my film maker software, add music, title, etc. then up load it to you tube so you could see it. If you know of a way I can take a JPEG file and upoad it here let me know. Sorry this didn't happen as quickly as you would have liked it to.

I have no idea who you are, much less what life you live. I have come here seeking support in my hour of need not to violate anyones privacy or to judge. 

Besides you live in a foreign country have three kids and a BF.

Oh one last thing  I know that I need to get professional counseling because it is sick and wrong for me to have anything to do with that woman. 

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Once again,

you did not read my posts carefully at all.  I have no boyfriend or romantic relationship with any human being.  I never ever want to have a romantic relationship much less a relationship of any real significance with any human being.  Yes, I do love my children, & yes I am their Mother.

 

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I understand.

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Well, thank you for understanding.  I hope I see you on the other side.

 

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My story isn't over so I won't end it, I'm  just gonna turn the page and start a new chapter

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Ocean boi, I think your lady was so lucky to have had you in her life.  I wish I had someone in my life that cared as much for me as you obviously did her.  That's very rare.  Of course your story hasn't ended. Please tell it, if you want to. I have been reading along... I've been so impressed with your level of caring and concern. 

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Carson,

I cared for her very much and it hurts that she didn't feel the same way.

 

Ocean boi

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Ocean boi, I am hurting too.  My last bf did not truly love me...he just used me until he was done.  Of course I could not see it until it was over and my heart was in tatters. It still hurts.  I'm learning (all over again) the importance of feeling my feelings.  Friends tell me to move on!!move on already, but sometimes it takes me longer than everyone else. It's not good to avoid the negative because stuffing those emotions will only give power to them.  And!!!! It perpetuates what we are resisting.  I'm so sorry you are hurting tho.  

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Carson,

maybe moving on to another romantic attachment is not what you need even though that is what your friends & most other people would think the right thing to do.  Maybe your BF did truly love you.  Sometimes love between two people is just not enough to keep the relationship together.

 

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Carson,

My user had a serious drinking problem. Did your user have an alcohol or drug abuse problem. How did that relationship end? I am happy to hear that you value your feelings and I hope you find someone that does. I hang onto toxic people wayyyy longer than I should. I agree dealing with the negative is better than stuffing them. How are you feeling today?

 

Ocean boi

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One day this will pass, thank you for your response, but he never loved me.  I wanted him to, and I told myself his interest in me was love.  It was ambition. Thats all.  He had another girlfriend, one that he told me he was easing out of a relationship with.   Then I heard that he married her. after I helped him get the good job at my company.  He still needed my contacts, and my expertise.  While I was helping him through all this, he moved in with me "part time".  I told him to leave when one of the ladies I work told me he had married the girlfriend, because she was pregnant.

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Hello Ocean boi.  No, he didn't have a drinking or substance problem.  He had a cheating problem.  And a lying problem. And a morals problem. Today I feel very good.  I went swimming today at a friends house.  Lucky girl, she has a pool in her back yard. I walked to her house, did some laps, and splashed around and walked home.  I am a little tiny bit sunburned. I am working on nurturing myself.  How are you today?

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Carson,

Swimming?Must be hot where you live. I haven't been swimming in a long time cause I got taken out of my rountine with this last cheating, lying, low life that wasted my time. I know I have no one to blame but myself. What the hell is wrong with people. That ex woman of mine is living with her ex who cannot be her ex because they are still together and she claims it's ok because they have their own rooms and don't have sex and wants to live there and have me move to where she is at my expense and I guess come and visit me once a month. I told her she could not have one foot in that house and the other in mine and would have to get her own house. She said she told the room mate/ex who is not an ex in my book that she will be moving out at the end of July because she wants her own place. 

And speaking of lies she told me that she caught her ex (a different ex) cheating on her and that her ex is married to someone else and I am trying to find out if that is true. Cause that is the only reason I decided to have anyting to do with her. 

Anywho another woman has wandered into my path who talks to me every day, but lives far away who I enjoy talking to but I hardly feel like I am in love with her but I think she feels more for me is helping me to get through this. It takes me a long time to get to the point of feeling love and passion towards a woman. 

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Ocean Boi hello!!  Yes it gets hot where I am?  You fishing? Wink 

That sounds like a whole lot of exes: explanations, excuses, expenses.  Waaaay too much drama.  Are you horribly stressed out? I believe I would be. Maybe a new friend who is a woman would be good for you.  Hopefully healthier than the last?  

I have been visiting family this week.  I took a couple days off work, and drove to see my aunts, and a cousin I hadn't seen in a very long time.  Very nice.  They're all just as kooky in a nice way, as ever.  It did my heart good to spend time with them.  I'm still nurturing myself. Surrounding myself with people who love me is one way I do it.

I know its been a few days.  Lots can happen....how are you doing?

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Carson,

I do have a new friend who is a woman and appears to be healthier than the last. Glad to hear you say your family and are surrounded with alll that love. I am very busy with my work. The weather has been good. I would like to go fishing if I had the time. I woke up to a lound sound pinging on my air conditioner. Have no idea what is causing it. What did you do today?

 

Ocean boi

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Ocean boi!!  Helloooo.  I don't have any experience with ac units.  That falls under the category of call Dad- he'll fix it.  Soo good to hear that you feel your new relationship is healthier.  Healing/healthy.  Just back away from drama and lies.  

 

I had a nice weekend.  I went to church Sunday with my parents and dad's dad.  All us ladies took them out for seafood after the services.  We sat around talking and reminiscing till suppertime.  It was great.  

Are you feeling good today?

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nOOooo not the AC Unit!  It's the most annoying loud, annoying machine invented.  Might as well live in your Refrigerator when it's functioning properly.  Nothing finer than extreme heat & back into extreme cold.  Does not do a body good.  I am currently going to redefine the good old fan for nightime sleeping.  I'm actually even considering losing the microwave oven, but I don't think the kiddies will agree.  Lawn Mowers are equally annoying.  Gas ones are like maintenance on a small car, electrical ones are not for the ADHD folks.  Yikes!  Looking for the manual one.  It looks kind of a Gym alternativeSmile

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Carson,

Not sure that I am in a new relationship. Church? How nice. I am feeling very fine thank you. Had a good work out, don't know where the time went.

OB

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OD,

No AC, No fan. Swamp coolers are OK. I hate AC. I imagine that it must be a hella cooler in Canada then it is where I am at. 

OB

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OD,

PS the window unit AC wasn't even on when I woke up to all that loud, long lasting, crazy noise.

 

OB

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