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To: onedaythiswillpass Happy Mothers Day!
May 29, 2013
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One Day,

My favorite thing to do is play in water my second thing to do is to at least be so close to it that I can touch it. And I only drink water. I am going now to walk around the lake before sunset.

 

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Ocean Boi,

Beware the Whirlpools that are caused sometimes by turbulent waters.

 

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One Day,

I have never seen a whirl pool just tide pools.but, I get your metaphor. When I see turbulent waters mixed with sand I usually think of rip tides and the ocean had some bad ones and the surf was quite rough the other day. My walk around the lake was peaceful saw many different species of ducks and birds this was a natural lake not a resivoir. The temperature tonight was perfect. I haven't been to the gym in a couple of days and hope to go swimming on Friday. I think I will go take a walk on the bay tomorrow and have lunch at my favorite sea side cafe. 

Smile Ocean Boi

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Ocean Boi,

I am jealous.  I have nothing around here that resembles that Aura.  In my backyard I do however have a creek that at this time of the year has ducks & geese & my neighbourhood is very mature for trees.  Our mish mash of weather has produced much green & glorious growth.  In fact both my front yard & back are starting to look like the tropics as everything has really overgrown.  I guess I need to get out there and do some trimming before the privacy bushes come right into the house!  I have always however wanted to be able to live in a residence that has a tree growing from the center of the living room and up and out of the rooftop with plenty of room for it to breathe.  I consider trees to be very alive & just a little more human than humans.  Obviously I would call it the giving tree, but with more careful thought, it's doubtful that the tree would be very happy being contained that way.  As I turn my head to look out the backyard window (I never use curtains), I see one of my two glorious trees and the sun as it warms it & shines and glistens its foilage.  He is happy to be near us, we are so happy to have him.Smile

 

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Ocean Boi,

Thursday is always such a busy day for you.Smile

 

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I think we need to build an antrium for you. Bad day.

 

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Ocean Boi,

what are you building for me now?   Who is the "we"?  Please, I am so captivated by your third person attachment!

 

Thursday's are your bad days.  You are unprepared for the unknown.  Think of the learning curve!

 

You don't need to tell me how, just promise me everything will be alright & I will believe you.....Ms. Shigahara & her pianoSmile

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One Day,

We = You and me. Went to a seculed ocean, and took pics of it from the cliffs as well as pic of tide pools. 

 

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Ocean Boi,

Were u awake or alseep when you wrote this?

 

One Day Ocean Boi, One Day when the time is right & when it's quiet & when no one suspects my departure.

 

One Fine DayCool

 

Love is strange & Lana sings "when I go, let me bring my man with me" in will you still love me when I'm not young & beautiful?

 

P.S. your not texting, the word I do believe is secluded.

Why are you home so early?  Go do what you do.

 

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One Day,

I am going to look up that song you just quoted and make another movie of my day at the ocean. I went to the ocean early before it got hot. Had some work to do when I got back.

 

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Ocean Boi,

you almost always have to leave home before it gets hot.  I hope you are getting your sleep the way you should.  Today I am also awake early due to circumstances.

 

If ever I get a chance, I will depart from this cage of mine & fly far far away where no one knows where I am.

 

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One Day,

Are you trying to say that I am beginning to form a pattern here? I prefer to go out and do things in the moring when it is cool before I get my day started and in the evening around sun set when it starts to cool off when my day is over. Not a heat loving person. I know I need a vacation but as many responsibilities as I have I don't see that happening.

 

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Ocean Boi,

that's precious, a patternSmile  Go on vacation if you can afford it.  It's June now, book the trip if you have not already done so.  Be around those who hopefully love you the most.  And give a big hug to one of them in particularSmile

 

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Ocean Boi,

I know you are a very busy person.  I hope I did not offend you by my last post.  Remember in R. Dogs that new old song by Blue Suede?

It's called "Hooked on a Feeling."  It's such a classic.  It's kind of like me.Embarassed

 

After all, it isn't a crime to be hooked on a feeling, is it?

 

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One Day,

What feeling are you hooked on? It's good to feel feelings expecially the feelings that make me feel good. If I go on vacation I need to make a plan and save money because I plan on going far away. 

Who do you want me to give a big hug to?

 

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Ocean Boi,

the feeling is LOVE.  That's the emotion I like to stay connected to with people I care about.  I just thought that the song by Blue Suede was really powerful because so many people are hooked on different kinds of substances today & for me, I just like knowing that the few people in my life that  mean so much to me and make me happy are the ones that I want to be hooked onto.  That their continual love for me is what keeps me high.  Plus when a song or music sounds good to me & it's something I like to hear often, I kinda get this feeling that it was given on high & is really a wonderful gift to cherish.  Some people disregard music, but for me, if it's good, it is has an everlasting ability to bring back a feeling of joy within me.

I don't know why but I thought you were planning on taking a vacation in June where your family was going to get together to spend time together.  Maybe I confused you with another friend who told me that.

I am sorry if I got you confused with another friend.

When you say make a plan & go far away, do you mean a trip where you will never return?

 

Someday I plan on taking a very long trip somewhere very far also but for now I have to stay here & raise my children.

 

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One Day,

I don't really have anyone that is in love with me except for MAYBE that woman. The song you spoke of talks about being IN LOVE and that is I feeling I only have for one special romantic interest in my life. I plan to go away maybe permanently if at all nothing is immenent yeat just a twinkle in someones eye. One thing people fear most is change and change is something I should consider.

That woman arrived and we have been spending time together the hughest obstacle is the distance. We get along but that is only from my point of view. I did buy her a ring so she can be reminded of how much I love her and how much she means to me. 

 

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Ocean Boi,

wow, I am truly sorry.  A few posts ago I misunderstood you & I thought you were asking me to come away with you to a "secluded" island, but now your dream girl is with you & you have given her a ring.  It must be Love between you & her.

Congratulations!

I hope wherever you go you cherish her forever & ever.

It was nice to know you.

Adios.

 

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What part don't you understand Ocean Boi?

You got your only love a ring, you are on your way to a life full of wonderment & joy and I wish you all the best.

You have spent countless posts telling me that you are done with this girl, but now she has magically arrived at your door & you are not just letting her in, you are giving a ring of promise for your future together.

 

You are on your way to a life full of charm.

 

Enjoy every minute together!

I really don't think I want to be part of your marriage counselling advisory board.  I have enough of my own troubles & my time here on this earth is ticking very very quickly away.

 

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One Day,

How could I have been done with this girl before we even had an oppotunity to be in an intimate relationship? Before I met up with her in person there was no romantic relationship. Now that we have spent countless hours and days together repairing the damage done from the past we are ready to move forward. We both have decided that our will to be together and work things out is stronger than our will to be apart and continue doing and saying destructive things that tore us apart. At this point we have made a promise to be committed to each other and hopefully will get married in the future so no need for a marriage counselor at this time. 

Sorry that you feel this way hope to remain friends.

 

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One Day,

No joke this woman has offered to save all of her beer cans along with her friends and families beer cans to raise enough money to pay for the wedding expenses.

 

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Ocean Boi,

I think that her gesture is a very gracious one.  Maybe you could build yourselves a life from empty beer bottles too!  I think that us  being friends during your time with "this woman" is better spent focusing on her than by sending me any more posts.

Happy drinking,

 

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I don't drink and she is going back to where ever she came from today. She spends enough time focusing on herself and  and there is no need for me to focus on her any more. She drank the entire time she was here and when I asked her to go walk around the lake she said she was too drunk and couldn't walk, then she asked to go to the ocean so she could buy her ex and her friends some T shirts. She never paid me back for the ticket like she promised or for even half of it nor did I ask. She spent a great deal of time talking to her ex, getting calls from another ex, and texting and calling god knows who. The rest of the time she spent sitting in a chair drinking beer after beer. I had the opportunity to tell her that there was no way me and her ex were going though life together, that she wasn't relationship material and this buisness of her and her ex playing house together was a real deal breaker for me. She claimed that she had told her ex that she would be moving out in 60 days and getting her own house to rent so we could be together. I told her if and when she does that to let me know that I wouldn't be mentioning it again. I did buy her a lap top computer with a web cam so we could work on staying in contact and a ring. She didn't mention marriage and neither did I. I am glad I met up with her. We had unfinished business and I learned so much more from being with her in person then I ever did speaking to her on the phone. 

I am not here for anyone else I am here for myself and will take whatever time I need to do whatever I need to do to figure out whatever I need to figure out. 

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When you talk to her from the place that she came from & is returning to, can you set the backdrop music to be "here we go round the mulburry bush, here we round the mulburry bush so early in the morning"?

 

And you should focus on sending her pics of the Ocean so she does not forget how great you are.  If you don't send them to her, it's o.k., but make sure you promise to send them.

 

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