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To My Friends from Bel
May 30, 2007
12:59 pm
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Right now I write this with a heavy or broken heart. My 15 month old grandson was taken out of my custody yesterday and is already in a foster home. I can hardley funtion right now and am in shock that the system can be so corrupt and not listed to me, my son, my mother or any other family member that the 15 year old girl is lieing about my son. We have already lost the girl who are 14 and 16 (the 14 yr old said its all lies but no one will listen to her) and my baby grandson and now they may come for my 13 yr old grandson. Needless to say I am heartbroken and a basket case.

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May 30, 2007
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((((Bel))))

I am so sorry to hear this.

May 30, 2007
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((((Bel)))) I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't even imagine the pain you're going through. I truly am sorry, Bel. Love and Hugs to You!

May 30, 2007
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MJ and Tumbles thank you so much for responding, it really means alot to me, I feel so drained and empty right now. I called the social worker and they are going to let me have visits with my grands, 2 hours per week. Its better than nothing and I keep praying that everything comes out alright and my little baby grandson can come home to his dad and the rest of the family.

Bel

May 30, 2007
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It is so sad that you are unable to continue caring for your grandson instead of the system thinking that foster parents are the solution. You have bonded so deeply with all these children. What a deep loss for you today.

I am glad that you were able to arrange for visitation today. I am so sorry Bel for your loss. I hope that the system can work for you again.

My nephew has been going through something similiar and just recently has been able to start seeing his son. I got to see him briefly when I went back to my mom's for Mothers Day. He cherishs his few hour visits. I know what you mean when the courts try to protect the innocent and destroy innocent peoples worlds. I hope that you don't give up and know that you are cared about. I am glad that you are doing what you can to help all your family. Love to YOU

May 30, 2007
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((((Bel))) Hang in there. Keep posting.

May 30, 2007
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Bel, I'm glad to hear that at least you will have weekly visits to try to stay connected and your grandson will be happy to see you, too, certainly. Hopefully, when they see this you will have longer visits and things will work out in the long run. Will keep you in thoughts and prayers, Bel. Love, TW

May 30, 2007
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Bel, I am so sorry about your grandson being taken away. I don't understand the system sometimes as it doesn't seem in the best interest of the child at all. Please know I care and am here for you to vent and share.

Love, TS

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