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To Bevdee
October 1, 2008
6:32 pm
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September 30, 2010
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Bevdee- Hi. I read one of your posts. I just wanted to let you know that I appreciated all the time that you put into my situation. I would save your posts and memorize them. It helped me out alot.

I feel bad that you said that you tried to reach out to me and got nothing in return. I always admired you and I am very sorry if I did that to you. Could you please give me an example so I can recall the events.

I did write something unkind on the liberation brew thread that had to do with Craig.

You did make a strong impression on me. Your posts did give me the tools to start navigating the terrible situation I was in with my husband. Gave me the ability to understand what was going on. It has made me a much stronger person. Your words helped give me the ability to control what was going on instead of letting it control me. Back then I felt depressed and hopeless. Now I feel in control and hopeful.

Unfortunatly mentally I am not I guess as well as others on this site. We all have different phsycial features as well as brains. I have no idea what exactly is wrong with me but this site and someone like you has giving me more insight than I have had before.

I always thought you were OK and didnt have problems or needed anything from me. When I first came here your wisdom was far superior to mine and I didnt think I would have anything to say that someone as wise as you would need to know. I looked up to you.

This has brought me to the point of tears.

Yes, I am pretty messed up, but I still have hope.

Cyber hug,


October 1, 2008
8:22 pm
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I wasn't referring to you in my posts to MaryP about my codep and advice giving. It wasn't about you. I really never put much time, thought or effort into interacting with you.

Please please don't give me the credit for where you are with your husband!! That's not on me.

I hate to hear that you are crying, again don't give the credit for that. I am a little mystified by it, because we didn't exactly have a relationship to grieve.

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