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TIRED OF LIVIN LIKE THIS
April 1, 2007
8:21 pm
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katarina
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Here I am a goodlooking woman sitting at home while my husband is gone again all weekend long. it makes me sick. He is gone shooting every weekend. He has no time for me. It makes me want to reach out for someone else you know. I have been married seven years. I need to make other plans!

April 1, 2007
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Is this a new hobby for your husband or has he always gone away on weekends?
What about during the week, do you do things together or spend any time with him?

Atalose

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April 2, 2007
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Katarina:

I'm so sorry for your pain. I know the feeling all to well. My hubby spends one day on the weekend at his bro's house and the other sleepin or playin his guitar. He never has any time for me it seems.

I don't have any great advice. I try to focus on the kids, sewing, something you like to do.

(((((katarina)))))

April 2, 2007
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Couples need to have their own interests outside of each other and be supportive of each other's interest. I think if you find something you really like to do, face the fear and get out there and just do it. You will be having such a good time and be more cheerful that you won't have to time to be sad or envious of him while he is away. You will appreciate him more and the time he is there when you are happy too and that means finding your own little piece of happiness, something that is just for you. Quality is better than quantity.

April 2, 2007
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just to let you know taj64 he is gone every weekend! We have been on one vacation is seven years and that was just one day. I'm supposed to be thankful for that? I didn't get married to be alone! He is self absorbed! He even went to shoot when my mom passed away last year. I asked him to take me away on a little vacation so i could try to have alittle happiness in my life and he said he had a shoot to go too. Thankful huh? Quantity?

April 2, 2007
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I'm confused...do you have two screen names?

Or does jillian and katarina both have husbands that go shooting on the weekends?

just trying to understand if this is one person's issue or two people that have similar issues.....

April 2, 2007
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SORRY, JILLIAN44 AND KATARINA IS THE SAME. ONE IS ON MY WORK COMPUTER AND THE OTHER IS AT HOME. SORRY I FORGOT. STILL NEED YOUR OPINIONS THOUGH.

April 2, 2007
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A little more information would help because I do not have enough of it. Now that you have stated more information and by the way I think you can only have ONE screen name, sounds to me like your husband does not want time with you so you have that right. I know you are angry person. But I am wondering why you stay at it for 7 years. That is mighty long time to realize hey this guy is not paying any attention to me at all. You should be angry and hurt by this, but at the same time, you cannot just let it go and keep it inside like this because then it will explode someday. You are not getting quality or quantity and you obviously have told your husband this time and time again and he is not listening. You have several options: 1) get out and get divorce; find a new life and or husband that is better to you 2) stay in it and accept the way it is 3) you change and do something different or he changes and it is different which could involved either counseling for you or counseling for him or couples counseling. If this man is unwilling to change and you are unhappy, get out of it. In all three scenarios or any scenario I might have missed, you deserve better and you deserve respect and most of all you deserve a husband who is loving and there.

April 3, 2007
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Thanks Taj! I have to make a decision. I just so unhappy. I just want some attention from a man! craving it. you know? write later ok? I will be on tonight. Maybe we could talk then. thanks

April 3, 2007
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no offense, but I think HE already made the decision.

the only thing left to decide is do you accept it or not.

and since you are here...and upset about it...it doesn't sound like you can accept it.

and I don't blame you one bit.

things aren't going to change...unless you decide to change them...cuz it's useless to think he'll change.

and taj is right...only one screen name is allowed here...so I suggest you email the site coordinator and try to clear it up....otherwise, you may be "excused" from here and not allowed to return (site guidelines)

April 3, 2007
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I ALREADY TOLD THE CORDINATOR ABOUT THE NAME. YOUR RIGHT CAN I LIVE LIKE THIS? I WILL THINK ON IT.

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