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This was weird, but NOT surprising...(Jen, here)
August 26, 2006
3:26 pm
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Jenni
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So I'm sitting at my desk at work the other day, and one of the guys upstairs paged me on my phone, and informed me that my name was posted on a local site on the internet. He asked me if I knew anything about it. Of course, I didn't and asked him what it was about.

So he comes downstairs to help me pull it up on my computer. It was a public messege of a woman looking for her XH. She says he and his "new wife", have taken her children a disappeared from the area, and have taken it upon ourselves to raise HER kids. And our names, (mine and X fiancee's) were posted.

First off, her parental rights were terminated, due to her drug and alcohol problems. She has no rights to those children. And she's not even in the area that she claims we disappeared from. She just is unable to locate him. And in the past, when she was unable to find him, she would call me at my previous employment.

Well, I left that job last October, so I guess she assumes we got married and I ran off with he and the children.

Now this messege was posted this last April, right about the time we broke up. So it shows that she really is not up to date with the situation. But I'm not about to fill her in, because as long as she thinks I'm gone, she won't be looking for me around here anymore.

This was one of the reasons I had to back out of the relationship. I just did not have the energy for this type of thing. I had already gone thru it with my OWN X, and I didn't need to go thru it again, with someone else's X. When I got away from that the first time, it was never intended to jump into another situation of the same kind. That would kind of defeat the whole purpose of "getting out" in the first place.

Anyway, just thought I'd share this little piece. Nothing like a little "baby's mama drama", to re-affirm the choice I made! YIKES!!

Jen

August 26, 2006
10:37 pm
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Glad to hear that you are no longer in such a draining relationship. It is amazing how much information gets posted on the internet.

August 26, 2006
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Wow Jen, I am so glad you are out of that relationship...How are you doing?

August 26, 2006
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Thank you both for posting. I'm doing pretty good.

I can't help feeling bad for my x-fiancee about what he's going thru. He does have it pretty rough with all of this and being a single dad. I'm just glad that he and I have remained friends. I only wish the best for he and the children.

Chelonia, I don't believe we've met? Nice to meet you.

Thanks for listening.

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