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thinking for others
January 3, 2005
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sometruth
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Ok, so....

I realized today I have a tendency to think for the other person...like, scenario running, and a lot of "if-then" kind of flow chart things....

and I said to myself HEY! Stop thinking for David, think for Charlotte!

it's a tricky thing....maybe from the childhood thinking for the alcoholic/maybe bipolar mother, spending 14 years trying to figure out what to do to please her/keep things safe....

I do FINE out of a relationship and I do fine inside one where things are going ok, but let the tiniest thing go awry and...BAM I am in wierd habits.....and especially thinking for the other person.

I'm gonna work on this habit this year.

January 3, 2005
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Is this the same as finishing others sentences? If so, I am guilty too. I am trying to be a better listener which means...no more finishing sentences!!

January 3, 2005
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I have a problem with not really listening to people because I'm thinking more of what I want to say then listening to what they are actually saying.

January 3, 2005
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Is this a codep thing too? Or are we flawed! LOL

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