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There IS Justice in this World
March 31, 2001
5:48 pm
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gingerleigh
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Hi folks, just wanted to share my glee. I feel guilty for taking such satisfaction out of this, but, here goes...

I posted a few months back when I was going through a rotten divorce. My ex immediately moved in with another woman, a (now ex!) friend of mine. It was awful, he basically fell out of love with me and treated me like crap.

I coped through the divorce by working a lot, traveling everywhere, and completely ignoring him. I returned from my travels last week, and he came into my office to talk to me. He confessed that he was still not over me, and missed me terribly, and said that he had made the biggest mistake of his life by ending the marriage, and was still very much in love with me.

I was floored by this. I think he was waiting for me to say something similar, but I told him that despite all the pain I went through, that the divorce was definitely the right thing for me, and I was much happier.

It made me feel good inside to know that he had finally realized that he threw away someone who loved and cared for him without a second thought. And it also made me feel good to know that I was free of him.

Thanks for letting me vent. Have a good weekend, all.

March 31, 2001
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Alena
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Gingerleigh, how coooooll.

And you said just the right stuff.

Isn't it great to feel so liberated?
Liberated from the pain, and heck , it always feel pretty good to know the guy who didn't want you before, wants you NOW. Don't we always somewhere in the back of our minds when the split is going on, we say "You'll be sorry, you're going to miss me someday".....well, hey, it's abou time. Better late than never.

And yours is a great lesson for the brokenhearted out there who post about their lost loves and how do they cope and go on.....you work through it, put yourself first, and you NEVER,EVER know what tomorrow is going to bring. You worked at making yourself a functioning, cool chick without him......and it paid off.

Congrats and rock on girl.......

April 1, 2001
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That wasn't a vent...that was a "TADA"

Good for you discovering YOU again.

I need lesssons.

April 1, 2001
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lewis
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thats a happy ending

glad for you and your success

April 4, 2001
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I am happy for you - that you received some "closure" to all your torture. That has to be the best feeling in the world. I'm in the process of a divorce right now and would die to hear those words from him. But, I never, never will. He has too much pride and ego to tell me that. He could be more depressed than I am and I will never hear it from him. His sister secretly told me that he was very depressed and very pitiful and is in denial about everything, but it's not the same as hearing it from him. I'm happy for you!

April 4, 2001
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Success and happiness, boy bet he is sorry, good for you. Did he leave with his tail between his legs?

April 7, 2001
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Hey,Gingerleigh.. It's Ranmar from "help me please x 2". I can't believe you experienced what you did. I hope someday my wife goes through what your ex did, only before she blows her chances. Congrats on being the master of your own destiny.
Ranmar

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