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September 15, 2005
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Randomwomen2
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oops i ment husband not husbad well some times it fits i guess. lol

September 15, 2005
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husbad 🙂

September 15, 2005
10:49 am
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lol i think that was a furodian slip wow i cant spell for crap this morning but you get the picture

September 15, 2005
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I am thinking that the baby being planned her needs to be thought of first. All this going on, is it fair the unborn child? How are this child's needs going to be meet if neither of you are emotionally healthy.I think random, seek some personal happiness for yourself and don't find it in this controlling husband of yours. You can make a better life for yourself and your two sons. It is going to take time. Allow that to happen.

September 15, 2005
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I know that im not going to have a babby now i am not going to let them pressure me into it it would be totaly unfair to the precious child and it would be unfair to my boys and to myself. It just hurt me that he thinks he has the control on the timing of the baby it is unfair for him to tell me that i have 16 months to reproduce or no more babys I dont know if our marrige is going to work out or not.

September 15, 2005
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Yes it is painful for you and so unfair. This is not your fault. He is wrong to do this. You're so young, and full of life ahead of you. You have a lot of love for your two boys. They deserve a happy mom. They must sense your unhappiness. Your hurt will heal but in meantime love yourself, and love your boys. Take good care of yourself. Make yourself a priority. You will get through this.

September 15, 2005
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thank you hunny i will try to remember this as i go through my day i want to devote my day to them more so than usual i want to play around on the floor with them read to them turn off the tv and show my boys who i realy am and how much they mean to me cause some times i get so bussy that i forget the simple pleasures playing cars or row row row your boat or sinnging to them I want them to love me as much as i love them. I will still need a nap but before my nap and after i want to show them my love.

September 15, 2005
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Just huge, warm, comforting, strengthening hugs to an extra-special lady
(((((((((((( Julie ))))))))))))

September 15, 2005
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Yes, be a child with your children. It is simple pleasure in life, and your children will remember this. they do love you, and love you even more as each day comes.

September 15, 2005
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damn I just took my pills and now im exausted so im going to lay down for a while and hopefully i will not have any flashbacks. wish me luck

September 15, 2005
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It is so weird to me when i have flashbacks it seems like they happend to someone else I cant cry over the passt its like im emotionaly blocked from it. I feel like crying is one step to healing so how do i get there does any one know?

September 15, 2005
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I'm not sure what a flashback is like, they sound very intense, but I do have something on the crying - you'll cry when you're ready. And most likely you'll cry a lot, but not before then. For years, I was sure that I was very cool with my father - I never spoke to him or about him, and that was ok - but the truth was that I had just put my feelings away and locked them in. It took a lot of journalling and talking before I could even get to my anger, and I had to get through some of the anger before I could grieve for myself, my father, our relationship. It just takes time.

Just take one day at a time. Crying isn't always healing - sometimes it is just crying.

September 15, 2005
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I dont even have the time to cry

September 15, 2005
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I wish i knew what to do about my husband i dont know if i should stay or go and if i go where should i go to ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh. this is realy stressing me out

September 15, 2005
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wow i just did something with out my husbands permission. our neiborhs was going to sell there couch at a grauge sale so i told them that my husband gets paid tomarow and we will pay them then its only 20 dollars and its a damn good couch was i wrong to make a desicion like that with out consulting him first?

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