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The Truth about the Bully
February 18, 2011
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Chinadoll -

I must ask you to stop stalking me, bullying me and lying about me.

-  Ma Strong

February 18, 2011
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StronginHim77 I must ask that you cease and desist falsely accusing me of being chinadoll and that you cease and desist diagnosing people.

February 18, 2011
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HOLY CRAP BATMAN!!!!!!!!!

 

Okay, this site was confusing enough when it changed over....now this?????????????

 

GOOOD god.

 

The only blessing that has come out of this is that I can choose who I want to converse with, offsite...and determine for myself who is real and who is not...and who is worth my time and who is not.

 

This kind of stuff is bullshit!!!!!! 

 

And for what it's worth....how the hell does anyone know that the "ma strong" on another site is directly linked to the stronginhim77 here?  What is this based on? because someone suspects it? because someone says so? because the poster says they are?  Auto is getting questioned on being other posters here...but who is to say that ma strong on another site is one and the same?  she's been around long enough for someone to know every intimate detail (tho that idea in and of itself is scary) of her life to impersonate her.

 

That being said...I am out of here.  Ma, you know I love you and support you....and I don't care what your credentials are or are not....you are a human being that I choose as my friend because of your kindness, compassion and support...period.  I have seen you "discuss" diagnoses with other people....but I have seen that done by many others as well.  I think someone has too much time on their hands if they are police-ing this site enough to know the full history of what someone has posted over an extended period of time.  EEGADS - get a life.  The only person responsible for police-ing the site is the SC, in my opinion.

 

Anyway.....I'm out of here.

February 19, 2011
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Ditto... So long to those I have conversed with in the past. I truly wish this didn't happen... the old site was bad enough, but this is beyond what I can handle. I'm thankful that I can keep in touch with my favorite peeps away from here... and Ma, I will be in touch when the dust settles- for now, I am just too shaken to communicate at all. Bev, I wish we could have continued chatting, you were always so sweet and understanding, and I miss that. Rising, if you ever want to talk about nursing options... PM me... and we can e-mail for real.

So sad about this,

Isis

February 19, 2011
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risingfromtheashes said:

HOLY CRAP BATMAN!!!!!!!!!

 

Okay, this site was confusing enough when it changed over....now this?????????????

 

GOOOD god.

 

The only blessing that has come out of this is that I can choose who I want to converse with, offsite...and determine for myself who is real and who is not...and who is worth my time and who is not.

 

This kind of stuff is bullshit!!!!!! 

 

And for what it's worth....how the hell does anyone know that the "ma strong" on another site is directly linked to the stronginhim77 here?  What is this based on? because someone suspects it? because someone says so? because the poster says they are?  Auto is getting questioned on being other posters here...but who is to say that ma strong on another site is one and the same?  she's been around long enough for someone to know every intimate detail (tho that idea in and of itself is scary) of her life to impersonate her.

 

That being said...I am out of here.  Ma, you know I love you and support you....and I don't care what your credentials are or are not....you are a human being that I choose as my friend because of your kindness, compassion and support...period.  I have seen you "discuss" diagnoses with other people....but I have seen that done by many others as well.  I think someone has too much time on their hands if they are police-ing this site enough to know the full history of what someone has posted over an extended period of time.  EEGADS - get a life.  The only person responsible for police-ing the site is the SC, in my opinion.

 

Anyway.....I'm out of here.


7:45 am
February 17, 2011

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The opening letter, pasted at the commencement of this thread, is a
complete lie.  This can easily be corroborated by going to that Site and
reading my 3 postings with your own eyes.  I am completely innocent of
these statements, a fact which can be easily proven by any Reader
visiting that Site.   The letter is pure Fiction, as is my "alleged"
(and ruthlessly fabricated) posting on that Site.  The lies continue.

-  Ma Strong

February 21, 2011
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hi Ma..

all...

sorry this is goin on.  .. idk who this 'auto' person is but they just need 2 go on... and i did read some and in one post auto did say 'i am chinadoll'

but i dont care... this is all so rediculous....

just 'ignore' auto or report her...

she /he is doing nothing but disrupting a once helpful site...

it is really aggrevating me 2 see this goin on...

yall r being kindof childish in my opinion..

gonna go read some threads where people r really needing help 🙂

ps: u dont have 2 quote ppl every time u reply either ... lol

February 21, 2011
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risingfromtheashes said:

 

And for what it's worth….how the hell does anyone know that the "ma strong" on another site is directly linked to the stronginhim77 here?  What is this based on? because someone suspects it? because someone says so? because the poster says they are?  Auto is getting questioned on being other posters here…but who is to say that ma strong on another site is one and the same?  she's been around long enough for someone to know every intimate detail (tho that idea in and of itself is scary) of her life to impersonate her.

 


 

You are right, Rising, there isn't any way to know for sure. But common sense would say that the StronginHim77 we know here almost always signs her posts "Ma Strong", so it would be natural to think that it was the same "Ma Strong" that posted on My Inner World. StronginHim77/Ma Strong here did admit to making 3 posts on My Inner World. If she did post under a different name on there, and then saw someone else posting as "Ma Strong", if I were her, I would be a little concerned by that. Just like if I were to go over there or another website, and I saw someone else posting as "chinadoll", I don't think I would like that at all. I wouldn't have a lot of control over that, except maybe contacting their admin about it. Not like we have any copyright on our names or anything like that, but if that is a name we are always known by, it would be perfectly natural to not want someone else to use our nickname.

 

For what it's worth Rising, the "Ma Strong" who made that post (that I mentioned in the letter) did happen to mention on that deleted post that she keeps in contact with risingfromtheashes and also with Curious64 both by email. So if you are concerned at all with an impersonator who might be using Ma's name, you might want to verify that the Ma Strong that is emailing you is the one you consider your friend here. For your own sake, just to be careful. I am not trying to make trouble, but I did want to mention that it is simply out of concern. I gave a couple of people here an email address from here who I thought were ones I knew, and that email address got hacked into a couple of weeks later.  Just protect yourself, that's all. That's what have been learning by this investigation. I thought I was being pretty safe, but you just never can be too careful anymore.

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  I NEVER WROTE ANY SUCH POST.  YOU ARE LYING.  THIS CAN EASILY BE VERIFIED BY QUESTIONING ANY OF THE REGULAR POSTERS AT SUNSHINE CAFE.  YOU ARE A VERY SICK PRSON TO LIE LIKE THISM, CHINADOLL.

 

-  mA sTRONG

 



 

Ma, I am sorry, but this is the type of harassment that is being investigated. I recognize that you and I are not able to see eye-to-eye on a lot of things, but I don't believe that I ever resorted to any type of name-calling like this that you have done to me. I may have been "blunt" with you at times, but I cannot ever remember calling you anything like "sick person" like you said here in this post to me. I did not think that I "bullied" you. I believed that I was defending myself for the things you said to me. I feel like you disrespected me many times. When I do not agree with someone, or if I believe that someone is being disrespectful, I look at the actions, not the person. I told you more than once that I did not wish you any ill will and that I did not wish you any harm. I cannot help it if you do not believe that. I have no control over what you believe. I do not wish to have any control over anyone, I have said that many times here. We can only have control of ourselves. The trouble with human nature is that we all live in our own sense of reality. You cannot argue with what another person believes. I do not like to argue. I choose not to argue, however, if someone chooses to argue with me, I have no control over their choices.   Ma, I know you do not like me. I accepted that a long time ago, and I am perfectly fine knowing that. If a person does not like me, then please just leave me at peace. I try to do that, but I will not tolerate someone disrepecting me and not taking responsibility for their actions. It is not ok with me when someone treats others in a disrespectful manner. I hope that one day you will find happiness and peace. However, I do wish that you would stop calling me names, disrespecting, harassing, and targetting me. That is what I feel like you have done to me all this time.

February 22, 2011
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I am grateful that someone is finally investigating your harassment of me...and many others.  I have not been your only target on these threads (and others).  May the full Truth come forth.

February 22, 2011
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No, actually they are looking at perceived threats and harassment being made against me, a U.S. servicemember. Otherwise they would not be spending time and government resources on this. They have already closed their investigation on me. They don't see where I have harassed anyone. They are looking at the actions that others have made, and are especially concerned as to why anyone here would be concerning themselves with my financial information, my real identity, and my personal information. Yes, I agree, the full truth will come forth. And I will be glad when I can have my laptop returned to me for good. And hopefully get on with my life.

February 22, 2011
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chinadoll, your a woman, dont men harrass you all the time? whats that like? i mean, i can count on one hand how many times a woman has checked me out in public, and they have never actually hit on me before. i would love to see what that feels like for a day, not for life, im sure its annoying, but yeah, having women wanting to buy me dinner, telling me how nice my eyes are, and the more dirty ones saying i have a nice ass. that would be nice.

 

i have been checked out before by a guy, that made me feel both hot and REALLY uncomfortable. especially since he was next to me at the urinal. and thats why i dont use public restrooms!

February 25, 2011
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zara,

yes, men do harass me all the time. It seems like wherever I go, I will hear a man say, "hey Mamasita" (and I don't even speak Spanish! I had to ask one of my Spanish guy friends what that meant the first time I heard that). Or I hear "hey baby!" and I say, "I am not your baby!" My bf doesn't even call me "baby". I won't tell you what he calls me! I can't post it here!! LOL! Laugh

 

It is hard enough being a female in the military and then there are always these guys that talk really bad. There is zero tolerance for sexual harassment in the military, but there are always those who want to see what they can get away with it. Most of the time, I let it go, it's just them being stupid. I will speak up if I don't like it. I only had to report it a couple of times, when it was out of hand.

 

Luckily most guys at work are pretty cool. They are like brothers to me more than anything. I have never dated a guy I've worked with. One of my supervisors, he and I are very close. Like brother and sister. He is kind of a stocky guy. He knew I had been under a lot of stress from this investigation, and he started to pick on me when we were outside, just to get on my nerves. I kept telling him to stop, and he wouldn't so I told him off. He said, "Is that all you got?" and then he kind of pushed me and I pushed back and he said, "I know you want to kick my ass, but I don't think you can." So then it was on! Mind you, I am petite and small-framed, and probably weigh a buck 20 soaking wet. So, after he kept pushing me, I tackle him and we roll around in the dirt for a few minutes. He was doing it on purpose to get me to release my stress. So he let me "beat him up" a little bit. And then, he was like, "are you done?" Which of course I had to yell at him again, for my hair getting messed up and getting our uniforms dusty!! Laugh

 

My bf teases me all the time, which then turns it into a wrestling match when we are together. I think he just does it so I will wrestle with him!! Wink

February 25, 2011
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oh, and I used to never like to use public restrooms either, but after having to go to the field all the time, I prefer any toilet that flushes--public or not-- instead of going in the woodline!! I've been caught a couple times with my pants down and that was not fun!! At least guys can stand up to pee!!

February 26, 2011
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lol so your friend used the old teaseing you trick huh? i have used that many times when a friend is stressed out, i have been the victim of many punches and slaps for my female friends who afterwards are even more angry with me when they realize i was doing it to let them vent a little bit, thank god they hit like girls! (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD I HOPE NONE OF THEM READ THIS SO THEY WONT CASTRATE ME LOL)

 

(for the record that was  a joke people, no one try to take that out of context assuming a female friend is going to castrate me)

February 26, 2011
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I don't really get mad about the teasing, Z--if it's for fun. I just don't like the bully kind of teasing.

I was such a tomboy growing up. My Mom used to get so mad at me when I was little. She would put me in these ruffly dresses and matching tights and send me off to school, and I would come home with my dress dirty and torn, and holes in the knees of the tights. She used to yell at me and ask what I did to ruin my clothes so bad. I told her the boys were climbing trees and going on the monkey bars and I wanted to do it, too, because they were having a lot of fun. And then she would just shake her head. Finally, my Dad would tell her just put me in pants, which she didn't like. I was the first girl, so she was always dressing me up. She was trying to save the dresses for my younger sister, but I guess I did not cooperate with that too well!! Smile

My bf always tries to be careful with me if we end up wrestling. He is a body builder and is way stronger than me. He can pick me up like a sack of potatoes and throw me, so lots of times, he will let me "beat him up" a little bit and then we will stop. I am sure I hit like a girl, according to most guys I work with, but then my bf and I have also been trained by the military in hand-to-hand combat, so my bf knows that we could probably seriously hurt each other if we got carried away. One thing that would absolutely piss me off is if someone hits me in the face. After that, I can't say what would happen to the person who does that.

 

I have a guy friend (who is not in the military) who used to try to mess with me, teasing too much, and then he would act like he was scared and he would stop. And I would say, "what's your problem?" and he would say, "you still know how to kill a man 12 different ways."

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Trolls.  (Sigh)  Death of a Website.

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khazard hot pink that is so hot. ill bet you cant leave the house wearing flipflops.  lol.

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Greetings Everybody~

Hope You are ALL having a Wonderful Monday...Laugh

Felt like Yesterday since I read this Thread... been awhile~

You bring back some memories chinadoll... but also to differentiate *Bullying* & *Teasing* to poke Fun not stab with
Salacious intent by Mean- Spirited Person(s)... LoL

zarathustra~ cracks me up... (I don't imagine Anybody castrating You after Your comment... I hope) LoL

StronginHim77~ Trolls? You mean flaming haired dolls with Don King hairdo's (no offense to Don King) or
in Internet slang, a troll is someone who posts inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community,
such as an online discussion forum, chat room, or blog, with the primary intent of provoking other users into a desired
emotional response... [source: Wikipedia]
Seen that on this Thread & Others... like You mentioned can be *death of a website*...
I imagine You have perused through the Other Threads & seen Many One Liners & Quips that have nothing to do with
the topic... Maybe some directed at me... LaughLoL
so if You are referring to Anybody Trolling on Your Thread... might want to ask Yourself... Am I Guilty of that too?

Topic: Truth About the Bully...
***Lies within the written Words... (no pun intented)  [trying to stay on-topic here]

Have a Great One Everybody!... Blessings~

February 28, 2011
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StronginHim77 said:

Derek said:

khazard hot pink that is so hot. ill bet you cant leave the house wearing flipflops.  lol.


TROLL SAMPLE.
 


Greetings StronginHim77~

Oooooooooooooh OkiesWink Thanks for the responseLaugh I just noticed You mentioned about Troll
*before* Derek's comment so I got Confused as to exactly what or whom You were referring to...
Appreciate Your time though...

***In General... what in the World is a *khazard* (Greetings Derek... Welcome to the Thread... I could only find
khazard as this online... connected to Runescape... I was trying to Better Understand what You meant...
maybe You could help me there... Thanks! )

Have a Great One Everybody!... Blessings~

February 28, 2011
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lol love and light you are by far the easiest person for me to make laugh, a trait i am very fond of because my jokes are limited to potty humor and male castration lol

February 28, 2011
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There was a previous troll posting made on four other threads (including this one) which mysteriously disappeared overnight from all 4 threads.

-  Ma Strong

February 28, 2011
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lol love and light you are by far the easiest person for me to make laugh, a trait i am very fond of because my jokes are limited to potty humor and male castration lol


Greetings zarathustra~

LoL... You know... I was raised up watching Rodney Dangerfield... Leslie Nielsen... Gosh Billy Crystal- Whoopi & Robin Williams...etc...
so my Humor is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy out there...Surprised LoL

Potty Humor & Male castration... Great combo... LoL... (as Males across America cross their legs) [hears flush in the background]

Theme of Thread... The Truth about the Bully... I kept thinking of that song: Wooly Bully by Sam the Sham & the Pharoahs... LoL
(try saying that three times fast... LoL)

Well I imagine there are Some who have seen the Light like this Gentleman~

Saw the Light

 An 80-year-old man went for his annual checkup, and the doctor said, "Friend, for your age you're in the best shape I've seen."
 The old feller replied, "Yep. It comes from clean living. I know I live a good, clean, spiritual life."
 The doctor asked, "What makes you say that?"
 The old man replied, "If I didn't live a good, clean life, the Lord wouldn't turn the bathroom light on for me every time I get up in
 the middle of the night."
 The doc was concerned. "You mean when you get up in the night to go to the bathroom, the Lord himself turns on the light for you?"
 "Yep," the old man said.

 The doctor didn't say anything else, but when the old man's wife came in for her check up, he felt he had to let her know what her
 husband said.
 "Your husband's in fine physical shape," the doctor said, "but I'm worried about his mental condition. He told me that every night when
 he gets up to go to the bathroom, the Lord turns the light on for him."

 "Aha!!!" she exclaimed. "So HE'S the one who's been peeing in the refrigerator!"

(Would that qualify for *Potty Mouth*... LoL)
courtesy of butlerwebs...

A Classic... LoL... Have a Great One!Laugh ... Blessings~

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flaming haired dolls with Don King hairdo?

 

Shoot, I always thought Don K had the troll's hairdo.  They were there first!! lol.

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