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the things i need to tell myself
July 11, 2007
11:55 pm
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alright. i must be done with this relationship too. it has been four long, painful, difficult and abusive years that have grated on my self esteem and drained me as a person. this does not mean that she is terrible. i love her a lot and still hope to be friends with her someday in the future.

i deserve to be treated well.

i deserve to be respected.

i deserve to get my needs met.

my needs are just as important as another person's.

July 12, 2007
12:31 pm
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hi porcupine...your are making steps by saying the words above and keep beleiving in yourself and know you are worthy!!

4 years is a long time and if you are not happy, its time to get out.

Keep posting it really helps!

July 12, 2007
4:19 pm
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Good for you! If you ever want a relationship again make sure your standards are set as high as you want them to be. It's not mean to do that, you are just watching out for yourself. Be nice to yourself, LOVE yourself.

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