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the right thing :(
October 1, 2001
3:17 am
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gypsygirl
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Why do I have to feel soooo bad about doing the right thing?
I told someone that I love that I was not willing to move out of state to be with him because I need time to heal myself I reasured him that I loved him and that If I moved to be with him that I would end up in the same old situations that I always do, like the one I got out of in march, and that I would eventually loose my identity and we would both be unhappy. I was not willing to give up the things I have going for me here now like school, work, my independance, my treck for my identity. UGH if it was the right thing to do why does it hurt so bad? And why does everyone assume that I need to be in a relationship to be a complete person? If my friends arent trying to fix my up, I have ex- boyfriends accusing me of always looking for that one person? I dont want to be in a relationship!!!!!!!! I am happy being a single mother living on my own. I might dabble in long distance relationships or sexual relationships but that is far from commitment. why doesnt any body understand that? I need to screem AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
helps a little but not much. 🙂

October 2, 2001
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You go girl, and screaming always works for me, I use a pillow often. It feels wierd because you most likely put your need on the table instead of some one elses good for you. I understand, and there is always some sort of cost for doing the right thing, but it will be come more natural for you with practice, hang in there. Congradualtions.
got us a real woman in the making

October 2, 2001
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thank you your resposne really means alot.

October 2, 2001
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Just don't loose faith in you. Honor your self, and you will not live with regret, well not as many. Practice makes perfect, and until you do it for a while, it will feel strange, and don't ever forget tell them to take a hike if they can't take a joke, keep smiling, you are creating your own world, not many women have been so brave, or intelligent.

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