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The OK Corral
September 24, 2007
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and why shouldn't it be painful here, you know what he is up against here...my brother got messed up with the airforce big time, he was working on microwaves in turkey... he came back in realy bad shape...way before the war, but anyhow,I want to send out hugs to you as well here, wish there was something more positive i could say here to you, sorry:(

September 24, 2007
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Survivor, Thsi is the part that really gets my goat..........He was only about 20 when he signed up because his college costs were too high, that is when the towers blew up, You know when everyone was soo patriotic...........now it has all changed, plus he fell in love and had his life started ( he will be 25 next month ) so they got married before he left.........now he is stuck in this and even he know it is all sucking, (((Surv))) ((((horsefly)))

September 24, 2007
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oh ((((horsefly)))has he tried to call his wife? Maybe he left a message for you with her maybe??? How is she doing with all of this? Are the two of you close? Hopefully so...if not, maybe you two could form a bond over this and help each other here?

September 24, 2007
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Surv, They lived together for 3 years while they were in college and he was in the reserves . So I kinda knew her.......but she is here in this town with me now. She has a huge family and my son does too ( on his dad's side) They all have tons of money..........I don't. Birds of a feather flock together. She doesn't ( I can tell doesn't get that I raised my son alone until he was a teenager and when to live with his DAd and money ). So it will take some time getting bonded and having a new daughter - inlaw. I all happened pretty fast. Like Ladeska said .........everything hit me all at once. Horsefly in Hell today

September 24, 2007
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I won't stay in hell for long , I am allowing myself a moment though..Thanks Again, horsefly

September 24, 2007
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Birds of a feather flock together

very true horsefly...sadly. People with money tend to be that way, unless you have it too, they will have no part of you. Money is their god and their poison. It corrupts for sure here. Well its good that you have your own seperate life in that case here away from them. Very good. Hopefully they would call you if they did hear from him here...I would hope so anyhow.

September 24, 2007
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I think you deserve to feel whatever you want here, tears and all, in fact that is healing, its when you surpress it is when it hurts you, then you become numb later on and cant cry...its healthy here, let it out, get the anger out of you, do not let it fester inside, get it out, cry, do whatever here, then set a time, to move on, dry your face, find your peace, do what you can here that is healthy to soothe you.

September 24, 2007
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Survivor, I know you have things to do .......his dad's family and I do not communicate at all, That was done along time ago. But I will contact them if I have too. I think he will leave tomorrow or the next day so I think if he is able to he will call back, I just hate that I missed his call, Thanks Again, horsefly

September 24, 2007
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Horsefly- Hi. It sounds like you finally heard something either from your son or about him. I had to bail my daughter out of jail. Then she got married, I bought her a car. Then her new husband got sick and wound up in the hospital. We were all freaked out because her dad just died 6-29-07. She kept me busy. Now they have gone back. Then I find out my husband MIGHT get out of jail on Thursday. I have to travel 180 miles to go to the trial to find out (I HOPE NOT). My daughter is 4 months pregnant. I am evicting tenants.

I had been checking the web site and didnt hear from you.

I hope you are OK. I go crazy when it comes to my kids. I cant stand being out of contact with them. They are all I have.

HUGS AND LOVE AND I AM SORRY< Destiny

September 25, 2007
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September 25, 2007
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Wow Destiny & Hosefly*
S/of abuse*

You gals have ben going through it!
My stuff is just stupid compared!

I will keep you all & your families in my prayers!

OH we need electic shot fence ladies!
For the Stallions in our lives!
the 2 legged kind!

I had a FEMALE ferrier come over last night & trim my new mares hoves!
The prevous owner had not had them done for over a year.
She did the babies front feet too & we will work on touching the back he is only 5 mths old & has never had his done ever!
They where so good too!
Everyone keeps saying the mare is pregnut...........
I have to get her checked out ASAP!
So I bought one horse & will end up with 3 .........OK fun!
This Female Ferrier was so great kind & smart she is even willing to train me in triming & hoof care !
Even my husband was into it go figure! He came out back on Sunday & helped me fix the fence & even walked the mare around & wanted to bond with her?????
He now calls her HIS Mama horse!
WHAT??? can you belive it! Pinch me!
YAH OK Corral here this week ladies!
Take care
WASABI

September 25, 2007
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Destiny and Wasabi, Just checking in for one minute to let you know I am OK and I will post more tomorrow , Thank You, HP ! horsefly

September 26, 2007
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Wasabi- You are lucky to have the horses. It is nice that your husband is into them as well.

Horsefly- I will be going out of town to my husbands court case. Plan to look at a paint pony on the way. Cant wait to hear from you.

September 27, 2007
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Destiny*
I have waited along time to get a hores again..........22 years long!
I saved money I made on my own, & he was a real jerk the frist few days when I brought them home .......like total silent treatment!or mean
But yet he started to build me a barn in FEB. but it is unfinished.
I made corral BY MY self in the far corner of our property to hold them till winter! Not one thing has been done to my barn in over a month!
It's the withholding thing the abuser / controler does!

Him coming out to the corral to be involved was not normal?
Like Blue Moon freaky!

When ever he wants me to do something now & he is being a jerk........like alot he'll say oh well you just go play with your animals ... go feed them or something!
he is even jelous of them ......
Grow up please!

I know your going through it I wonder how court went for your husband I know you are not ready to deal with him out of jail.......
Let us know what's up ?
An your daughter wow
I have issues with my oldest son too it's so painful!
(((lots of hugs!))))
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September 28, 2007
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Wasabi- I just bought a 3 year old paint pony. She is so beautiful. she has a palamino colored head with dappled palamino color on her body. Her mane is black and white. She has 3 colors, buckskin, black and white. My gift to myself. The judge denied my husbands request for an early release. My divorce is final tomorrow.
These men cannot stand it if we entertain ourselves.
My daughter got out of jail and is up to no good.

September 30, 2007
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Destinyhorse and Wasabihorse, I have had a big week.............I am checking in with you guys, seems like life moves quickly for everyone and threads are everywhere so I know I can find you here. Please feel me in.......I am all ears.............HP!!!!!! horsefly I tried to buy a big plastic clysdale at the grocery store from the Budweiser man and they wouldn't sell it....teehee horsefly

September 30, 2007
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Horsefly- Yes I have been busy too. I miss my beautiful paint pony that I had to buy and leave until I get things figured out. But thoughts of her make me happy.How is the B-day? What did you do? You are not getting older just better. I mean I am getting older but I feel much better than I have in the past.

Hugs.

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September 30, 2007
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DestinyStar*
So cool on your paint!
Mine are paints also!
I wanted a black & white , but got the white & brown. The baby is mostly white & so sweet he has some sports coming in real light cafe! color so I call him Latte! And her Java Mama! That isn't there paper names but so what! Everyone tells me see is pregnut!!!!!!
So I will get the vet out this week & test her that's just what I need too!
It must be bitter sweet that your husband didn't get out of jail!
Congrast on the horse & D-day!

Horsefly* I have seen many post of your birthday........ Hope it was a great day for you when ever it was!
Mine is in NOV.

I was bad ladies ..........
I wrote HIM (Mr. Hondoras) a note in a card I sent to the jail where he is being held for deportation.
His girl friend said he may get sent home on Monday or tues. I tried so hard not too, but I wanted to touch base with him so bad! I didn't say much but what I did say was more then I should of!..... well I should of left it alone , but I just had to get into his head before he left........ ok I'm so bad , he is in my head & heart & it will not go away! I may never see him agian .....
But them he may be back by Christmas or Spring! Then I have no idea how I'm going to feel or deal with him around........... I asked him what is this conection we have.... like he could respond. & I said I missed him around! & ok this is the worst of it I told him I say passion in his eyes when he looked at me! & I wrote it in spanish it sounds better in spainsh, ok just shoot me now!
I said see you or maybe not nevery again or maybe soon! No one one knows I just said goodbye & take care & God be with you! Was that too wierd or am I totaly obsessed or what!
OK Corral for now!
Wasabi

September 30, 2007
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Wild and Crazy Wasibihorse. I felt strong for a guy friend while I was maaried so I do understand.....but like destinyhorse pointd out.........that is a good distraction. My own experience in life is my choices I make. It is always a swap off. Choices and turning points in our lives.......be careful.......HP! horsefly

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Wasabi- Men love one woman and want sex from others. I believe that he was sexaully attracted to you. Saw that you were married and he was in a relationship and thought that he could have sex with you with no committment. Sorry you feel hurt. You are attracted to other men because it makes you feel good. Your husband makes you feel bad. My paint is gorgiouse. Beige colored head and body with dappling, white and dark brown mane, white and dark brown tail. Not too much white. Very pretty. She makes me happy.

Horsefly- Yes when our mates make us feel like shit it is way to easy to get distracted by a horney smooth talker. Sorry, but thats what they are especially when they know you are married.

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I wonder do they realy even love at all, except there own desires!
Or is it the one that takes care of them they care for different!
My husband & I still have great sex!
I don't realy want sex from any one else but the attention has made me feel alive again like a school girl!
I use to get alot of attention & I forgot how it made me feel!
My husband thinks he is such hot shit! He has no idea the attention other men give me when he is not around! I hide it very well!
I see how they are too most of our guys are married or with someone ! But they are aways looking else where ....at the Mamacitas!
This man has had my attention for a good while is a Hot gypsy kinda man! i know way more about him then I evey though I would know! he is a player & I'm not sure he has been true to any one! he had 3 children from 3 different women ....Hello!
What does that tell you!
Trust me I have no intentions of running off with this guy!
He is one of our finer looking men on our crew & is 13 years younger then me it has just realy given my self asteam a boost!
The fantasy is way better then the reality! .......... Maybe it's a challenge for him! The bosses wife an all , I'm way out of his reach yet he was alway tring to get up close & personal with me. But never has he tried to touch me or kiss me never he has been a gentelmen all the way! But his eyes tell on him. you know that look ladies!

So I'm going to behave!!!!
He is to be sent home mostlikely this week so I hear!
I'm going to keep bussy I have my horse's now the baby & Mama needs lots of work & Mama may be pregnut too! I need to get my studio together I have plenty of work!
I wish I could get him out of my head! He just realy grew on me like mold it real hard to get ride of it once it's there!!!!

Destiny your horse sounds so cute isn't funny how we have paints!
Can yours be riden? I'm not sure how much my mare has been riden ?
Do you ride western or english?
I ride western even though most people in these parts ride English!
It's not for me!
How is your daughter what is here issues........ my son has issues too It's so painful when your kids has problems & go's about everything wronge & what do we know where just the Mom?
Take care
I'm keeping busy & out of trouble!
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Wasabi- My paint is a 13 hand mare. But I am only 5 ft. 2 and not much over 100 pounds. So she suits me. She is 3 and broke to ride but is young and needs work. She might be pregnant. I hope not. I ride western but I firts started riding English. English is not comfortable especially on the trails but does teach good balance.

Men do love woman usually only one. But they lust after many. When the fall in love it is difficult for them to fall out. Most divorces are initiated by women. Most men identify women with being a mom figure. The mother child bond is the strongest. It is complicated. Yes, they want their needs met first. Most are selfish. But, they can learn and be taught. I love my X. But he was not right for me. 6 years was a long time. His daughter wrote me and I started crying. Begging to move it. My daughter is out of jail and out of control. Went through, $11,000.00 in a matter of days. I am sooooo pissed at her. But have to let it go.

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Hey Horse pals!
My Mare is just 14 hands butt she is fat in the middle lower tummy area!
Most likely a bun in her oven!
I'm going to get a vet out this week I hope to confirm what everyone thinks!
Men & Love! deep topic maybe we should start a thread on it HA HA HA!
.....Do men realy love?????
JK!!!
And the thing about Mama's boys they love there mothers best!
Thanks for sure!
My husband totaly blows me off & ignors me when his mother's around!
She so tries to come between us!
I hate her at this time ......
I belive she is tring to break us up! Thank God she lives very far away & only comes out once a year to stir things up ! He takes her side & makes me feel so alone when they visit like I'm a stranger & they are roaltiy! I know he loves me but sometimes I'm not sure he love any one butt him self!

My son also was locked up in the spring for something dume w! But the time frame of only 2 weeks was enough to loose his job & go into major fin. strain! He is bypolar & as alot of anger toward my husaband & has been talking alot of crap of hurting him! It's not cool & I'm realy not sure what ta do about it!
All this caos this summer it's no wonder I fell into deep lust for my hunduran hotty! I have to find something to escape the painful reality of my life that every one but me thinks is so bitchen!
The american dream oh yeah I forgot!
So let's just play with our Narssistic hores's! And not the narssictic men!
Keep in touch!
So Why did I feel the need to write this man I have no claim too?????
What's up with that am I insane or what!
Wasabi

October 3, 2007
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Destinyhorse, Yipee !! My son contacted me from Iraq !!!! Thought you should know because you always ask me about him . How are things going with you my friend ? HP! horsefly

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I do keep up with your posts so I know somewhat is happening with you.....Your daughter is blowing it I hear......but please contact as you are able, I would love to hear from you, HP! horsefly

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