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The OK Corral
November 3, 2009
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this is off....be on this forum for years....not just since last year..we can email each other Now? that Nappy is long gone....
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Destiny, I nipped it today. I told the guy , I emotionally and medically am in the red zone and stress about this crazy I don't need. I will not get involved. I have already told him and I feel I did the right thing for him and his child.

As for me, it is not my problem anymore.......I am not involved with any of they.........the situation is too sick and I didn't do anything . So I have enough problems with out dealing with the ex's mess. He was helping get on my feet when I got back......but the best thing for myself ( if I haven't learned anything else is to take care of myself first )I just couldn't stand all the lives she was messinf with....She will be back with him anyway...........after the fairytale . I know my ex. he won't put up with her golddigging shit at all. He "s main addiction is racehoreses anddthat is where puts his money...........if nothing else they deserve each other. But I made it clear I have said enough.

I am not involved anymore. Nodody is going to screw up my Thanksgiving this year . My brother's son died 4 months agon and he was my favorite nephew and the oldest I grew up with him. He was paralized from a car wreck and died. I plan on go back to my hometown ( hour away) and staying with my brother and spending some time with my son. They can deal with it.......I cannot handle it. I got hurt about the farm , but you know.......I figured I would anyway sooneror later.

( Rod Stewart is on dancing with the stars) break!

Anyway, I took care of myself here. Whatever.

I am getting better.......slowly and I told him not to supenoa me take the ex.

I done my part.....I just couldn't stand the lies.....I hate liers. I have always been that way my whole life....my first husband was a chronic lying drug addict, I use to chaase my son under his bed if he even thought he could lie to me.

That is what I am about to on even keel.....I have have been working for years to get there......I am close so I am about to a point that I will make a come back. I am dressing better and looking better and nobody is going to tear me down. Surely one the right guy might come along. I am not stuck on a farm anymore and I have my own place and finding myself again. I just still have the wishful thinking that he had changed.

Oh well, when you get a chance let me know about you pony and baby....I know you love them. Love, horsefly

November 4, 2009
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Horsefly- You are sorting through a lot of things. You're doing a good job of resolving them. Its great that you are taking care of yourself.

My pony was bred last year. Then she stayed at my friends who told me she had seen her go into season. Then pony came to my home. I rode her every day. I noticed she was slow. I called a shoer who said she wasnt lame. I noticed she was always hungry calling out at night for food. I bought her two different kinds of hay and fed her twice the amount. But she didnt gain weight. Then I looked at her one day and I see her hip bones, back bone, no ribs sticking out, Good weight but her body looked different. I thought that it was too hot and she needed to go to a pasture to get exercise. I couldnt figure it out. So an Medical Doctor I know who has a ranch in a cooler climate came and picked her up to put her in pasture. I get a call that she is lame. I am like what. So, my friend picked her up and took her to her house. She called me up and said the ponies stomach was huge. Not too long after that she delivered a baby filly. She is better off where she is at. There are packs of wild dogs and coyotes here. The other day a pack of wild dogs attacked and killed some goats.

I havent even thought about Thanksgiving. I really want to go far away as in 600 miles away to a place that has trees, rivers, and lakes. I just went there last month. Then a big storm was moving in and I had to leave.

I learned that if my XX is stressing me out, I just quetly distance myself. Since he quit drinking and taking script drugs he is very quiet. I hate to sound pessimistic, but I know there is a good chance he might get back into action again. He looks lost without the stuff. For me I just got plain bored with him.

MY XX used to be involved in court cases, constant arguing, etc. All the players were dysfunctional, addicts.

My XX is who he is. Since I am not a snake handler I dont try to handle him anymore. Got tired of being bit.

November 4, 2009
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I love that line...since I am not a snake handler I don't try to handle him anymore....

Bitsy

November 4, 2009
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(((Bitsy)))) That one cracked me up too. Yuck Yuck I thought I am going to remember that one. Love, HF

November 5, 2009
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Bitsy- Glad you liked it. A good way to visualize some people.

November 5, 2009
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horsefly- sounds like you can relate. Sad to think that this was the type of man I was drawn too.

November 5, 2009
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I posted the New and Improved Bitsy on the other side and quoted that line.

Bitsy

November 5, 2009
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Bitsy- I will check out your thread

November 8, 2009
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Hay, I am still aound....just having emotiONlly .....it is my hand. My left hand is not working right again.........it is using a computer......latop anything. I thought this would be different....I need time to learn again howto use one hand doing......sorry, horsefly

November 8, 2009
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It's OK. We are all here for you.

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November 8, 2009
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((((Horsefly))))

November 8, 2009
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Hi Horsefly. Is it possible to get a program that uses voice command so you dont have to type?

November 9, 2009
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Okay Gals, I am trying, I am back in my 100 dollar brace and typing like a chicken pickin at the barn. I also crashed after I lost the lawsuit after almost 4 years.

Good suggestion Destiny, but I am determined to get this set up right. I am also sure if I quite using my my left are or hand.........I won't have a muscle left in it........the atrophy has reached my elbow. That is why I am joing the YMCA. That all you cowgirls for your support.

Screw the ex. The story isn't worth it after I saw my neuorologist.

Let's all get back in our saddles and ride like the wind. Love, horsefly

November 9, 2009
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meant thanks to all you cowgirls for your support.

November 9, 2009
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(((pegasus)))

Yer still flyin, despite a few setbacks.

Sorry about the brace but at least if the X comes around you have something hard to hit him with.HA!

Ya know, I haven't Ridden in years. Don't know if I'm allergic to horses still.

I think, if my life went according to my teenage plans, I'ld be on a farm right now breeding Andalusian's, Freesians or Paso's. Maybe nothing THAT glamorous but it's nice to dream.

November 9, 2009
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Thanks ((((MsG))))) I am about a calfgirl right now. If I see the ex I will probably grow .
.... and turn into a Bull with huge horns........and ram him.

I have the horse sickness again. The ex and body........tehe Love You, Pegasus

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