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The OK Corral
August 26, 2007
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Destiny, I am starting this thread because I seem to always leave you hanging when we post to each other. This way you can find me and I can find you. Of course anybody is welcome. I will be out some today but I will be around later. HP!! horsefly

August 26, 2007
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Horse Power- This is a good idea. My other thread got way tooo long. It rained here for a few minutes today. Loved it. Still dreamining of horses. Dealing with my girl in jail and my mans sentancing this week. How was the B-day. Any good cake? Yum.

August 26, 2007
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Destinyhorse, Stayed alot longer today than I thought I would. But it was good , my brother is about the only family I can handle at this time of my life. We had Sara Lee Cheesecake for the cake. He also is the one that has been here for me through all of this. How are you ? I have plenty of time to talk about my ex. but not sure I feel like getting all into right now.......What is this about your visit this Thursday? And when do you see your daughter? It is hard for me to get on different threads because I cannot keep up with everyone. I like the OK Corral because I can just find you and talk as I can.......I don't sit in one position to long....Alright now HP!!!! horsefly

August 27, 2007
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Destinyhorse, Where are you ? I am having one of those nice evenings when I cannot sleep or feel like staying awake either. On top of it all I am posting and having these deep thoughts.......I hate it when I have deep thoughts. I need to be more shallow........HP !

August 27, 2007
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I am here

August 27, 2007
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HP! What deep thoughts are you having? I just keep putting off things. When it comes to my girl and my soon to be X I cant live with them and cant imagine life without him. But I dont obsess on it. I just imagine puppies and ponies.

August 27, 2007
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I hear ya, Can't beat puppies and ponies ! The simplest in life. Actually , I am just up later than usual tonight.....just thinking and pondering ....nothing big. Kinda always been a deep thinker...been told. I am doing ok right now....just kinda lonely and felt like hanging around some at the OK Corral. My son will leave from Calf to Iraq probably in the next 2weeks...he will be 25 this Oct. ....That is why I understand about your daughter and her problems. Both are bad. HP!! horsefly

August 27, 2007
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DestinyH, I think what is bugging me right now is how computer dumb I am. I have been working on trying to get on another support group site for Marine's Family and it is just over my head.......I was very isolated with horses and was never around a computer.....I have taught myself on this site. HEEhaw......It is embarrrassing for me to say this but I am so over being embarrassed about anything. I do have a friend that can teach me some of the things I am going to need to communicate with him over there. So I guess I will figure it out......... Just thinking outloud here at the OK Corral............kinda catchy .....Ok ......everthing will be OK.........HP! horsefly

August 27, 2007
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Horsefly- Is your son leaving from 29 Palms, Ca Marine Corps BASE????? My cabin that I just sold on 5 acres was right outside the back gate. That place is hotter than hell.

August 27, 2007
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Destinyhorse, That is exactly where is or was at ? Last time I talked to him......that is what he said.......Mom It is HOT...He thought it would be cooler there than N. Carolina. I am afraid wehre he is going is going to be a lot hotter....close to hell. He may already be gone too. I havn't heard.....maybe I need to make a few calls today and find out. HP! horsefly

August 27, 2007
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There are not too many places hotter than the Mojave Desert. They say after you leave 29 Palms California ends which is true. There is nothing between there and the end of California til you get to Nevada. Charlie Mansons old haunt is in that path. A place called AMBOY. It gets 120 degrees there in the summer. Unbelievable. I swore it was my last summer there. I rented one of my homes on in Joshua Tree ( a new one) and sold that awful cabin with the loosers junk from one end to the other. Things seem to have quieted down in Iraq. How long will he be there for? My dad and brother were in the Marines. I used to live on Military bases. I worked as a nurse overseas. I thought is was fun. This was during desert storm. I am sure you will hear from him when he gets settled. My kids dad was in the military when I met him. Then made it all the way to Homeland Security as a Federal agent before he died. The military has great benefits, 0 down vouchers to buy VA homes, college tuition and excellent job training. Dont worry mom he'll be OK. I hate to have black outs when it comes to hearing from my kids as well. Drives me crazy. Especially when they are overseas.

August 27, 2007
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Wow ! Thanks for the heads up. I am always been like that.....just as long as I know where he is at and have a way to reach him I am usually alright. This is all new to me now....I just have to take it one day at a time. He has reassured me that when he is able to call he will. I remember you mentioned something before about your late husband being in Homeland Security. So you have been a nurse in Desert Storm. For some reason here you have made me feel alot better. Knowledge helps, if I understand I don't seem to worry as much. He said he could be there 7 months to a year ......who knows ? It is completely out of my control , so I turn it over to HP. Gosh, Charles Manson? eek the new age psycopath . I am going to look up this area on a map..........Well, I am galloping off for awhile.....Thanks again for the information. Horsehugs, horsefly

August 27, 2007
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Where' Wasabi ? I guess she is on her trip......mmm HP! HF

August 27, 2007
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Destiny, I just rode back up. may I ask you about your head injury? Or what was it you mentioned about the scapel or something in your head? I am curious about this for a reason . I busted my skull open in the back about 6 years ago (no shit) had 9 snapples in it for 2 weeks. A long story. I never was the same after it. Another long story......Does this have anything to do with your mental disorder now. I am interested in you disorder. I have my own of course but I would like to know more about you and this . When you get a chance. If you don't mind me asking? Hp! horsefly

August 27, 2007
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Horsefly- Yes my X was in the Navy. It sure helped his resume when he went into law enforcement. He had a wonderful career and loved it. I believe that his training in the military prepared him for it and law enforcement loves to hire people with a military background. When I went overseas to it helped me alot. Came back a better person. I loved the military experience. I never had a head injury. Maybe you have me confused with someone else. I have a mental disability from what I dont know. I have had it my whole life. I was able to do well and graduate from college. Got into administration as an RN. I just cannot stand being around noise, people, parties, more than one person talking at a time, music, TV. I do well alone and the only people I could tolerate would be my kids and occasionally my husband. When there are people talking to me in person or on a TV I dont follow it. If I read a book has to be read 3 times. I dont really experience emotions very often. The only true joy I really have experienced is being with my horse or around my grand daughter, and my daughter. I am usually not happy or sad. My thinking is concrete. Cant read between the lines. Mentally I have limitations. I just dont interpret situations the same way everyone else does. I have a hard time with verbal expression. My 14 year old son has a rare neurological disorder and gets psychotic. My daughter is the same way. My mother was the same way. I am sure it is genetic. I just keep my life simple. That works best. But I do manage my affairs in a responsbile fashion.

August 28, 2007
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Destinyhorse, How are you? Thursday is the sentencing for your husband? ........Horsehugs, HF

August 28, 2007
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Destiny, I just talked to a friend of mine from the old horseworld....who has been calling me at this friend's place, she tries to talk about how he is lonely..........I stopped her. I cannot take it now....I do have to talk to some of these people , I do for my own reasons and my life but not his. But they cannot talk to me without me and him being a couple. So today I talked with someone I knew because of my legal rights of being about to have my license on a racetrack.......with a disability......Again I had to stop. I felt defeated by knowing that any time I make a contact to my horse life it still revolves around him...........I might have a No Contact problem again......Because if I talk to my horse girlfriends they still just relate to us as a pair...I wish I could get back with the horses and friends I knew once without having to deal with him. This worries me.......................The horses always win out if they are in your blood..........I can denial it but I am always going to be around them........I always have. I am just venting right now.....I cannot seem to separate him from the friends and horses I know....I hate this.....Is this horse hell? horsefly

August 28, 2007
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Horsefly- If you need to talk about your license go ahead and do it. That is important and about you. When people call be prepared that they might bring him up but also dont be afraid to set limits. Tell them you would love to hear from them and would appreciate it if they did not mention his name. I saw a web site. I might buy a baby welsh pony in Utero. To be born in 2008. Oh that will make me happy. Cause I will have something to do with horses. The ponies are so little and cute and I am small enough to ride one 5 foot 2 3/4. After a while you will get desensitized to him with or without contact. When I dumped an annoying guy my friend called and said she saw him then said he said I didnt like the quality of her husbands construction work. So I told my friend if she wants to talk to him that is her business, but she deserves to hear whatever that idiot tells her and she was not allowed to repeat their conversations to me. She got the message and we are still friends. In the end the horses will win and your X wont.

August 28, 2007
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Destiny, I am so glad I have met someone with some good horse sense. You are very sharp here. I had not talk to these people for awhile because I just did not feel up for it. So when I did they were so curious about me and everything that they wouldn't stop. I was a bit overwhelmed. I Handled before the same way......I make it clear to one that we are broke up and it doesn't even matter who's fault....it is just over. I decided I will just do what I feel I am up to a bit at a time.......I am not the same person I was before and I guess they will just have to get use to it. Horse Power!!! I felt like a brokedown racehorse put out to pasture with no barn......for along time. But I am getting back up again...and none of these people or him will see me down again....that is for sure. Where is this you are talking a getting a Welch baby From ? Once I took a break from big horses and work with show ponies. Miniatures and shetland. I trained them for showing and groomed them. That was a trip...indeed. We would travel with about 20 of them to shows and boy was it a lot of work....The lady I worked for was a bitch.....she wanted all the glory and money (of course) while I did all the work....promised me alot...never saw it. I quit and went back to big horses. That was a cruel way they treat those show ponies too. I am about like you .......I just would like a small horse for fun and maybe just go to the races to watch instead of work with them.....I have paid my dues . I don't think I will be able to get a lisence again because they know I am injured. If i tried to , someone would turn me in....like the ex trainer , Because they are that way.....I will figure this out in do time . Because I haven't done a dam thing wrong and EX can just be his sorry ole self if he does see me. By then he won't ( i hope ) won't matter to me.......But I should be a round horses if I want to be. Right? hp!!!!! horsefly

August 28, 2007
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Horsefly- I dont care to be around anyone that has anything to do with my husband. I was never the same person after I almost got killed by my X husband (not this one). In a strange way I changed for the better. Maybe you can do ground training or GIVE LESSONS. I am a ground training that was my specialty. Training and breaking then I was done. I like to start them right after they are weaned. Yes, you should be around horses. Dont let this man rule your life. He was sorry before you met him, while you knew him and now. He is just one sorry MF. SUCCESS is the best revenge. Going on with your life in spite of them not because of them. I will love to have a baby pony. This one will be 13.1 stockey. Section C Welsh. They are drafty. Bred to a 11.2 Welsh. I have no idea if the foal takes ht. from mom or dad. Just big enough for me to handle and have FUN with. This lady has had an establishe Welsh farm for 30 years. She breeds the same damn stud over and over. The ponies have good dense bones. And sweet dispositions. She gets them from England and is very active in the Welsh Pony Association. She wants others to handle and show them. I like to handle them myself. I talked to my husband today. Told him will see him at his sentancing. I am nosey, I have to know from first hand what the SOB's fate is. That will be over on Thurs.

August 28, 2007
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Destinyhorse, Yeah the jury is still out on who I choose to be around involving that particular group of horse people.......We will see. I have changed alot and they never seem to. Kinda gets boring.....need to move on . I don't know that much about the Welch but I bo have an idea of what you are taking about.......Good nature and stocky ....sounds good to me. I like it. I can't wait until Thursday to see what your Sorry H gets.......this should be very interesting? Trotting Off for now, horsefly

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Is the group not for you or only b/c U associate them with the X?

August 29, 2007
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Destiny, It is a little of both. I am still trying to weed out who is important to me........Later on I am going to tighten up my girth and tell you some truths about me and the horse world. I have been having problems with my injuries lately. That is always an on going thing ..So I take it easy sometimes.......I am very thankful you are around, Have you heard or talked to your daughter? Hp!!!! horsefly

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Daughter is still going through the court thing. She went to a perlimnary hearing. She needs to be there because she is using and pregnant. But I send $20 a week for stationary and care packages with food. I went to my husbands sentancing today. He got 365 days and an in the jail rehabe, vocational program. My good friend went with me. Had to drive 200 miles to get here. Then my car went out. I have to pick it up today. My husband is making a hell of a lot more sense. But will go through with the divorce to protect myself. I have no idea where he will be or I will be when he gets out some time between Jan. and Mar of 08.

How much do your injuries restrict U? Have you heard from you son? (I am sure he is fine).

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Dear Destinyhorse, Sounds like you have been busy. 365 days? I think you mentioned that before.....it was a possibility. That is quite awhile. Who knows what will happen between here and then. How far along is your daughter's pregnancy? Are you doing alright? I have noticed you have been quite lately. Hope you are . My injuries are a pain in the ass and restrict me alot. I guess acceptance is the key to everything? I haven't heard from my son and I guess I don't expect to until he gets settled somewhere in Iraq. Until then , I just try not to think about it all.......Ponies and Puppys.......much better to think of. I do hope you write back and tell me how you are. HP!! horsefly

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