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The Moments of Missing Them Are So Painful
September 10, 2005
6:02 pm
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SassyAlex
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Man the pain is brutal. I have really good moments. But the bad ones are bad. Sometimes I wake up sad. Don't know why. It's like half of me knows he's not good for me and the other half misses him so much.

September 10, 2005
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I hear ya. Just feel it, and work through it, and it will pass.

September 10, 2005
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Sassy,

Five years ago, I walked out of a relationship and up until now, there are times that I miss him like crazy. A song; a scene; old friends, a thought- all these bring back memories of him and have me tripping over again.

All I can say is that with time, it will lessen and your whole self will be able to deal with the fact that he wasn't good for you.

All the best

September 11, 2005
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Sassy, I'm right there with you on 2 accts, the X that walked out on me and an old love from 12 years ago that I've decided is NOT healthy for me and am NOT going back...

I have figured out though that certain times of the month,like the week before my period are especially difficult. That's when my "munchies" button gets pushed, I'm a little more stressed and not as easy on myself. It's taken a lot of time to realize that hormones play into this and it's not all in my head!!
I am learing to just let go durning this week and don't do anything major or make any big decisions I may regret. ie..telling my X how much I miss him in spite of him leaving me for another woman, or calling the old BF back and trying to get back into that unhealthy mess...Just have to be strong for a few more days and it'll pass.
Stay strong, we are here with you!
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