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The ex
July 26, 2004
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wilcina
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Who I told not to contact me anymore over a year ago has been emailing from Iraq where he is an embedded journalist. I got caught up for a week in the anxiety of the danger and the "caretaker" aspect, giving him advice letting him lean on me. But I thought about it over the weekend and his presence was so disconcerting, and I realized it was just the same pattern, he needs me and I just drop everything to be there. I emailed him and told him that I am sorry to say this when he is in the desert, when he is in danger, but I can not keep in touch with him any longer for the same reasons I told him before. His current situation doesn't give him special priveleges or renew our relationship. Then I hit send and blocked sender. I will never know if he follows up. I am going to have a glass of champagne tonight. My favorite co-dependent vignette: A codependent will walk the last mile with you and then beat you to death with their crutch. I'm not doing that anymore! Cheers!

July 26, 2004
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Way to go!! Stay strong.. I'm very proud of you!!!

((((((hugs)))))))

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July 26, 2004
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Yes way to stand your ground I wish I had that type of will power as well, I am getting there, but definitley way to go.

July 27, 2004
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Block sender is a blessing!!!! I learned it from my friend whose boyfriend kept cheating on her and then would try to get her back. She changed her number and blocked sender. Everybody was like, wow, what if something happens to him, wouldn't you want to know, and she said, "That's not my problem"! I told her she's my hero!!!

July 27, 2004
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Good for you wilcina!

I too had to block ex (once again) last night...Problem with him is he is a PC expert. I wonder how far he can get, like hacking or something?
Anyway, you go girl!!!

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July 27, 2004
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Oh my god. Why are men such stalkers??? That's terrible!

July 27, 2004
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Wilcina

Sorry to but in bud,

Not all are.. Some know when to give up and go on with their life. I was told by my mother once " You never know what you have Until you loose it"

July 27, 2004
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Vito - You're right, not all men are stalkers, I guess I just meant the two that sunnygirl and I were talking about. I know I shouldn't generalize. My bad!

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