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THAT FEELING...
August 25, 2006
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santino
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Do you ever get the feeling that when you break up with someone that their so much unsaid? I hate that, I feel like calling her and just saying everything I want to.

August 25, 2006
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Unfortunatly sweetheart you would probably regret it later. Either you would probably leave the conversatition more hurt than you are now and regret telling her those things. Sometimes things are better off left unsaid.

August 25, 2006
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PAINFULLY TRUE, THANX

August 25, 2006
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I just dont want to see you more hurt sweetheart. How are you holding up tonight?

August 25, 2006
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FRIDAY NIGHT, NOTHING TO DO, I HATE MY LIFE SOMETIMES 🙂

August 25, 2006
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(((Santino))) My heart goes out to you sweetheart I am sorry that you are feeling so down hunny

August 25, 2006
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THANX RAONDOM, LOTS OF LUV

August 25, 2006
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what time is it where you are at? ITs only 8:50 here

August 31, 2006
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hey santino, how are you? everything all right.

August 31, 2006
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Still the emotional rollercoaster, but I'm taking it ay to day, thanx for askin.

August 31, 2006
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Santino- I have followed your threads here and there and I wanted to share with you what works for me. I write, either in a journal or just on a piece of paper depending on what I have to say. If it is things I am feeling and I need to get it out I journal, if it is something I want to tell him then I write it out like a letter and I say everything I want, I go through many emotions, sadness, anger, hurt and I get it all out, everything even things I feel at that moment but know I would regret actually saying to them and when I am done I may or may not read it over but when I am done I sit and see how I feel and if I feel like I have gotten all out that I can. If so, I either tear the letter up in tiny pieces or I burn it. The intent is to say how I am feeling somewhere and then letting it go. I hope this helps! Gayle

August 31, 2006
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Santino...I know exactly how you feel..I have come to the conclusion that what has been left unsaid was truely said in the relationship...my need to communicate what I feel still needs to be said is the end result of "my not getting heard in the relationship" ...no matter what I say in the end is that last ditch effort to be recognized and heard and not abondoned...

August 31, 2006
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gayle, i like your strategy, i've been doing a bit of it but i guess i just talk to myself, lol! looking like a crazy lady, writing might be better!

the rollercoaster, i like the ones at amusement parks, not this emotional one! it's driaining

August 31, 2006
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I had that feeling...that I needed to say all I needed to say and it ate away at me so much!
finally I got to say it...
it felt great!

and I think he felt the same way...said what he needed to say to me.

and funny thing is...we are still friends.

I remember that feeling of needing to say that I don't care anymore...or that I needed to say that you were wrong!

it does help..
but only if the other person is willing to listen!
and actually they don't need to listen...they just need to pretend...
I don't know if he was listening to me...but it felt better to say it!

nvr

September 5, 2006
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Double loss, I would talk to myself in the car and thought the same thing but I figured maybe I look like I am singing instead! Who knows! But do what works for you! The point is to just get it out! G

September 5, 2006
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I have found the courage to say what needs to be said in writing. I usually write them a letter and get it all out, things I would never had the courage to say even if they would have listened cuz I hate to hurt peoples feelings. I always feel a little better after getting it all down on paper then I reread it and it helps me to see things more clearly, like do I really feel that way, does that really bother me. Anyway NEVER forget to put it someplace safe or throw it away(burn it or shred it). I forgot to put one up once after a large fight with my ex-h and after I wrote the letter I felt better and realized I didnt feel some of the things I was just so angry and wanted him to hurt, well he found the letter and he didnt hurt but he was angry. ANOTHER big big fight happened over that one. OOPS.

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