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Thanks from Cyndra
November 14, 2006
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No, this isn't an "official" Afghan sisters thread.

I read the thread this morning and wanted to let you all know I love you very much. At the moment my usual eloquence 😉 may fail me, but I do care for the four of you so very much.

Now on to my individual comments:

GG~ Do you know that you bring a smile to my face every day? You say something witty and I have to smile. You have a wonderful insight that I wish I had. I am holding you and never letting go.

Mich~ I am sorry that dredging up those memories hurt and scared you. I know about doing that. I have been doing it a lot lately. Remembering my mother punching me and her never giving me love. I don't ever remember her telling me she was proud of me until recently. Isn't that sad?

As for your mother being jealous of you that's her fucking issue. Let it be hers. I think when you see Jim you should tell him EVERYTHING you told Jody last night. I know he will help you work through it. He is a great guy and I am so very happy you have him through this journey. Stop being afraid (yes, I know it's fear. He has seen more than you can ever know. He gets scared FOR not BECAUSE of you. I'm holding tight to you too!!

LL~ You know I think you, me and Need are going through a major growth hear as far as NC is concerned. We have given them power over us and we need to take it back. Okay, LL's not going to agree with me, but I just don't think her exN is someone who makes her feel good. I know Need's Whale Shit doesn't. She sees that. Why do we keep talking to them? What do we hope to accomplish by talking to them? Will it make us feel better? Is it for closure? I don't know.

Need~ Hello sister!!! Your boys are so creative, but you may get tired of me saying that. Thank you and LL for staying here last night with GG. Thank you for telling her to breathe.

I liked your point about not burying an issue before it's been completely dealt with. I feel the same way. I have abandonment issues I need to deal with. They stem from both my parents.

~~~~~Cyndra Confession~~~~~
I've talked to FIB twice in less than a week and I am ready to rip into him again. I realized that he's never been there for me. If it wasn't convenient for him he couldn't be bothered. His ass knew that one of my requirements for moving was for him to meet my mother. He threw up all kinds of bullshit to not do that. Then he wonders why I wasn't moving? FUCK HIM!

Okay, everyone have a pleasant day, or try to. Okay, there is no such thing as try. Choose to. How's that for today's theme?

November 14, 2006
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Thanks Cyn. I feel like an idiot after last night but, HEY, I will survive, RIGHT? I appreciate your love and support. Obviously, last night was a night from hell for all of us. We managed to get through it though I think. It has NEVER happened that we have ALL been that bad at once...but we got each other through it. I settled down once I had my sisters. I just needed that security and peace. I don't care how stupid that sounds. I just needed to know that someone was holding me and that someone cared. I am so full of anger, and talking about the details of what I did last night was VERY difficult for me. What a mess. Anyways, I just wanted to say thank you, I love you, and I miss you. Thanks for being you. You are special. Thanks for there for us. Thanks for being my sister.

Mandy

November 14, 2006
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Mich,

I am so far past caring what anyone thinks about our sisterhood. If they think our need to be held, loved, cared for, or whatever is stupid or weird, F*CK THEM!!!

I need my sisters and am happy I have all of you.

November 14, 2006
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I have to say that I am glad you have become receptive to needing to be held. I think that it is good for the soul. And I think that it is something that we all need sometimes. I am not afraid to admit that.

I just talked to Jody, and she hit a deer on the way home after leaving here last night. How sad...

Anyways, love to you....

Mich

November 14, 2006
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Mich~ Is she okay? I haven't hit a deer but have heard that it is very scary.

November 14, 2006
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Hey gals, how are you all?

I have 2 small requests with naming threads for everyone who reads this, not just the folks on this thread.

1. Please no bold, italics, etc in thread names. Basically, no HTML unless it's of an URGENT nature. Thanks. I'd like to not remove the ability to use html, so please use with discretion in posts as well.

2. Please, no strings of nicknames in a thread. If the thread is FOR 1 person & their issues, or FOR yourself and your issues, please make that clear in a thread title and use that 1 nickname if you'd like.

Thanks! Please carry on. How else would you like me to name this thread Cyndra? - I will change the thread name to one of your choice without the nicknames.

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November 14, 2006
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We've been duly spanked. Thanks for the reminder!

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