I will check the book out and read it tomorrow. I only have one sister and one nephew. My sister is five years younger than me looks up to me as always being the strong one. She is in very bad health with her back and hardly ever leaves the house, however since my husband left we have had ,more contact, she has always despised him. My nephew is 25 and we love each other but I have never talked with him about my problems very much.

I know that I must be careful and aware that he is dangerous to me. I am very afraid now because I feel I have been beaten down emotionaly, financially, and am very weak at making decisions for myself right now, especially split second ones. It seems I have failed with most of my decisions lately.

Thanks for your support, and I apologize that this is so long. Hope to hear from you soon, I do need all the support I can get. He just rang my cell phone and my home phone and my heart almost jumped out, but I didn't answer it.