Log In
Register
Home
2:20 am
September 29, 2010
Offline
Wow, I am so glad I was myteriously led to this site when the crazzzzzy committee in my head was working me up. Having people respond to me and reading all those threads that I feel like I wrote myself has been so amazing and healing. I am not a lone! I couldn't have made it sane this week without you all. So be well and keep on keeping on!
10:11 pm
September 27, 2010
Offline
(((fantas))) I know how you feel. I found this site right about the time I filed for divorce, and my ex went off the deep end. The people here got me through that time, and through all the bad times since then.
I'm thankful I found this site too, and I'm glad you did!
2:32 am
September 29, 2010
Offline
(((Readyforachange))), I think my higher power led me here. I haven't met so many people dealing with the same stuff like me and admitting to it. It's simply amazing. How are you doing after all this happened?
1:01 am
September 27, 2010
Offline
fantas,
I have been divorced for 2 years now. My ex is evil, and has tried so very hard to make my life miserable. When I refused to allow him to control me through his games, he started in on my kids. But I NEVER allow him to get to us. I have learned to choose my own fate and make my own happiness.
My father passed away 4 weeks ago, which was very difficult. It is hard, but I am learning to cope with the loss.
A man I had dated for 4 months recently began ignoring me, breaking dates, and not responding to my calls and emails. As I reflect on my relationship with him, I realize that it just wasn't going to work...he is still going through the divorce process, and is obsessed with his STBX, and it just pushed all the wrong buttons with me. The longer I do not have contact with him, the better I feel. It is hard, because I enjoyed being with him. But I know now that it was never going to work.
So...my life has been filled with turmoil in the past few years, but I have grown stronger and have chosen not to let these things bring me down. I still enjoy every day, and try to be positive about life!
You are not alone, ever, and there are so many people here to support you. Hang in there, okay?
2:09 am
September 29, 2010
Offline
ready4change, Thank you, I realize that I am not alone. These threads are just amazing. Sounds like you've had a full life and then some but you sound really strong. So uplifting. All the best to you...
2:08 pm
September 30, 2010
Offline
(((Fantas))) YOu are welcome hon! I, in particular, want to thank you for your good and sound advice, and for being active right away, even tho you are still new here. I find you a warm and energetic person.
I hope we can always be of help to one another!!! (((Fantas)))
2:31 pm
September 29, 2010
Offline
Fantas, this site is wonderful. It has help me so much and has made me a stronger person.
It has brought on a change in myself that I love and has help me to deal with the people in my life.
It also made me realize that I was codependent and that is a word that I had never heard of before and didn't realize that I was codependent my whole life. It really is a change and the people around me notice it also, some love it and some hated it but the ones that hated it, I didn't care about anymore.
I hope that you continue to come here whether or not you are having problems, maybe you can help someone else that is going through something.
Take care!
Nappy
2:39 pm
September 30, 2010
Offline
Fantas and the rest: I've started Book study for Melody's book on the Lib brew thread upstairs. This time, we're tackling Chapter 16 "Set your own goals." You are all most welcome to join in with the discussion.
I hope to see you there!!!
32
1 Guest(s)
