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thank you all for your replies
May 23, 2007
3:54 pm
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Thank you all for your replies although I have been in tears since. this man was sexually abused by his own mother at a very young age, and as a result he went off into major drinking / drugging for many years. When he stopped he was in AA for ever and says the he follows it like a book. I admired him for being able to turn his life around and make something of it. He receives a lot of respect for the work he does. I know for a good part it was mostly about him. That I was giving more than I was receiving, even he says that I gave way over and above. But the truth is I have never given that much to any one man in my life, not even my ex husband, not ever not even in the beginning. Being with him felt so natural like going home. It seemed like we just fit together. I am pretty good at reading people, and I am thinking that he just does not want to admit that he has feelings for me. I am not saying that he is not all the things that you all say he is. I know that I would be giving up the chance to find recriprical love. I always said that I would rather give love than be loved, as I had lived in my marriage for so long without loving my husband. Well I guess I got what I wanted. I have two weeks to examine my feelings and to gather up the strength I need. Thank you again. Your suggestions were all received and I will definetly be following up. Thanks

May 23, 2007
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Why are you in tears about what happen to him in his childhood. You didn't make any of that happen to him and you is taking this one really hard. If he had to use the drinking and the drugging for many years to cover the pain that what he did and if he has gotten help for that, that is what he did.

I think that you are putting this guy wayyyyyyyyyy up high on a petal. Bring him down a notch, he is just a man. When he start crapping out gold, then we will set him up there but until then you really needs to work on yourself.

You said that you rather give love, then to be loved, don't keep telling mens that because they will take advantage of you.

You want to give love and received love.

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