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Telling the truth
March 16, 2001
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Catlover32
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I tend to lie to the people i love and i dont know why

March 16, 2001
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Every behavior reflects a need. Why would you need to lie, then, is the question only you can answer. Do you think that you are often honest with yourself?

March 16, 2001
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Sometimes the more webwork we create around ourselves - the harder it is for us - to see ourselves. We lie in order to hide. Is the noise in the attic really a monster, or is it a mouse dressed up as a big hairy thing? You decide... But, you have to go up into the attic to find out.

March 19, 2001
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Maybe you think telling them the truth about something will hurt their feelings but because the truth sometimes does hurt but if those persons love you too..they will understand.

March 19, 2001
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I don't have enough memory to lie, how do you remember everything? I read once that people lie to prevent pain, shame,consequences,accountability, and then it just becomes a habit, like living out of integrity. Once we cross the line it gets easier and easier. So is it causing you problems now? It would be interesting to know if you are or are not honest with your self.

March 19, 2001
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I don't have enough memory to lie, how do you remember everything? I read once that people lie to prevent pain, shame,consequences,accountability, and then it just becomes a habit, like living out of integrity. Once we cross the line it gets easier and easier. So is it causing you problems now? It would be interesting to know if you are or are not honest with your self.

March 20, 2001
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Sometimes, too - lying is about you being bored and not being true to yourself and the level of intelligence you possess. It takes alot of brain power to lie and manipulate and keep your stories straight. Sometimes, it's just something people busy their brain with in order not to be bored. Sort of like someone who constantly works cross word puzzles or has to play video games all the time. Maybe you need to find your niche in life and give yourself something constructive to do with all that brain power. (smile) You might move some mountains that the rest of us could only dream of. Sometimes we need to look at the stars instead of at our navel. Much more interesting don't you think?

March 20, 2001
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What about Cici's question? What purpose is lying serving? What do you get out of it? What does it help you avoid?

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