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Talk To Me
June 19, 2002
12:54 pm
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I have this male friend that I met a year ago a few months after I left my children's father. This guy and I talked on a daily basis. I saw him occassionally. Right after we started talking my kids father found out and tried to interfere with us. I admit I let him interfered to a certain extent. Maybe because we had not to long broken up and I still had feeling for him. I would not let him totally come between me and the new guy because I had started having feelings for this guy. I would daydream about him alot, I guess that is how I new I had feelings for him. Moving right along, This new guy is strange to a certain extent, meaning, he may call all this week and tell me that he loves me, but the next week I may or may not here from him. I don't have a way of getting in touch with him personally unless I call his mom's or aunt's house. I never call there house to look for him. The thing is that I do care a lot for him and I think that I love him seriously. I know if someones really loves you they should show you but all he does is call me to check up on me. I have told him to not call me anymore but he still calls me. I mean when I least expect to hear from him that is when I do. I should I handle this situation? Does anyone have any advice?

June 19, 2002
2:23 pm
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Questions, questions, questions! Are you divorced now and officially single? If so, have you been on any dates with other people? Have you committed to an exclusive relationship with this other guy? If so, why? Has he done the same? Do you live in the same area as this man? Do you want to be in a relationship with this guy and all his weird behaviors? (He won't change, it's up to you to accept it or not accept it and move on.)

Any particular rush to be in a relationship right now? Any reason you couldn't just call it quits with him and all men for a few months and take some of the stress off yourself? Do you feel like he will threaten you or your kids if you do break off all contact?

June 19, 2002
11:23 pm
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Why, oh, why are women in such a hurry to hook up with another loser after they have just gotten rid of the biggest one?? Believe me you arean't the first to be in this boat and certainly not the last. I have friends that have been there. Retard, you are obviously feeling like this is not secure ground for you. It is his very illusive nature that is intriguing as well as repelling you. Listen to what you already know...Now is the time to make your kids and yourself your main focus. Or at the very least take Mr. Illusive real slow.

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