I have this male friend that I met a year ago a few months after I left my children's father. This guy and I talked on a daily basis. I saw him occassionally. Right after we started talking my kids father found out and tried to interfere with us. I admit I let him interfered to a certain extent. Maybe because we had not to long broken up and I still had feeling for him. I would not let him totally come between me and the new guy because I had started having feelings for this guy. I would daydream about him alot, I guess that is how I new I had feelings for him. Moving right along, This new guy is strange to a certain extent, meaning, he may call all this week and tell me that he loves me, but the next week I may or may not here from him. I don't have a way of getting in touch with him personally unless I call his mom's or aunt's house. I never call there house to look for him. The thing is that I do care a lot for him and I think that I love him seriously. I know if someones really loves you they should show you but all he does is call me to check up on me. I have told him to not call me anymore but he still calls me. I mean when I least expect to hear from him that is when I do. I should I handle this situation? Does anyone have any advice?