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susan1
July 23, 2001
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I can't stand the rude coworkers. They try to make me stupid and useless

July 24, 2001
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Susan,

Don't forget you can caught flies with sugar not salt.

Be sweet, smart and don't care what they think. They will come around and know you are special.

Have a great day.

Tammy

July 24, 2001
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The only way they can feel important, is to make you feel unimportant, so don't buy into the game. Disconnect, find some protective non confrontational response, like thank you, and come from a position of confidence, don't give them your power. Try to not try to fit in, let them come to you, make them wonder, make it fun, with out making trouble.

July 24, 2001
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A sense of humor is always important. You have to learn to laugh at the manueverings and inter-office politics, and just do your work. My Mom had a huge problem with her co-workers, but she jsut kept right on working and she is stellar at her job, so while they snicker and talk behind her back she wins national awards for her work and gets more raises than any of them.

July 24, 2001
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Plus...rember that they are TRYUING to make you stupid and and useless and they can't do that.

Even ifthey make you LOOK like you are your work should speak volumes for itself.

They are not worth the time you are putting into them...inconsequential..unimportant, senseless, etc etc etc.

Be great at what YOU do and they will no longer have any power.

If you let them bug and bother you you are giving YOUR POWER to THEM.

Stop doing that.

Unless one of them owns the company or is sleeping with the boss...quit caring about them.

July 27, 2001
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i had that problem when i started my job people can be very ignorant and selfish but just remember there the ones with the problems and one day they'll find thereselves in your situation and just think the situation your in will make you a better person as u can learn from there mistakes !

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