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Survival of the Afghan....Sisters Live On.....
November 2, 2006
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WHAT? I am confused...Why are you crying?

November 2, 2006
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gg, I have to go make dinner for my family. I WILL be back... I love you my sister...

November 2, 2006
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I am back, briefly...in and out making spaghetti....I am so excited, that is SO my favorite food...

November 2, 2006
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Feeling lonely....have lost all of my sisters, and haven't heard from kousin kroika in a while either...someone let me know you are ok....PLEASE. Feeling insecure...

November 2, 2006
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Maybe I am lost, but I am about to send out the search and rescue team here.....I am feeling a little nervous....

November 2, 2006
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I will go away if that is what you all want in order to come back...just please let me know that you are ok...

November 2, 2006
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hi Mich...mmmm spaghetti..
sounds good to me..

hi GG.. I will be here to support you GG.. and I know all too well what it is like to live with ADD..

Cyndra -- (((CYNDRA)) big hugs to you for all your support... just read your post on the other thread..
ma strong is right,.. you are giving all of us at that thread a lot of hope and inspiration// thank you, my sister, my friend...

I will be back in a little while. Boys have to get their showers .. then we are doing MAD LIBS again tonight.. then lights out and we talk about our day...

then I will take MANDY outside and then jump back here...

LOVE YA ALL

need

November 2, 2006
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mich, here, had to go get all the stupid drugs and pay $140 my percentage...I don't even understand them...There are five different bags and the stupid print is so small...I will figure it out though...Feel like shit, tired of feeling like shit...

My husband loves spaghetti...his favorite...I don't like tomato sauce...so I don't eat it...trying to decide what we are going to eat...why can't he ever cook or pick up dinner or anything...he just said we'll eat cereal if I (did you hear that, "I") don't feel up to making anything...dreading the recovery...

See mich, you guys don't need me around in this yucky mood...maybe if I felt better...gonna find something to eat....Love you mich

November 2, 2006
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P.S. : Mich, don't EVER say something like you will go away if we will come back, okay??? Gosh, we are a mess, aren't we....we need our LL to straighten us up...although, cyndra may be able to take us on! LOL

November 2, 2006
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To The Twins:
You two are so cute. Mich will not go away because I will go to Michigan and find her and kick her butt!!! Don't you dare leave us. You and GG go back and forth with the worrying!!!
Mich: we just went home (me), grabbed some meds (GG), still napping (LL). That's all. We temporarily checked out. Now we're back, but where the hell are you? Oh, cooking dinner. I guess you'll be back and that's okay, huh? LOL

GG: I'm sorry about the meds. Didn't they print out those little booklets that come with the meds? I get them and just toss them. If they didn't or the print is really teeny try looking them up on the internet. I'll do that when I am given something I have no clue about.

Need: I like giving advice I so rarely follow!! LMAO Seriously, I've been following my advice lately. It was hard, but it's been a blessing. Like I said FIB sent e-mails and text messages and I haven't answered. I formulate answers in my head and then go on to something positive.

LL: How did you sleep? I am sorry about your situation with your exH living with you. I'm sure your middle son is feeling the tension in the house that if feeding off of the stress from his father living there. You will work through it and do what's best for you and them.
Though you haven't explained why he's there I am proud of you for not allowing him to buy the car and put it in your name. I know you need a vehicle, but allowing him to use you like that grates your nerves. I love how strong you are.

To all my sisters, I love you very much. I value what we share and the support I've both given and received from you.

If there is any ass-kicking that needs to be done let me know. I am more than up for it. I will check on you before I hit the hay.

(((hugs to all)))

Cyn

November 2, 2006
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mich, are u around...i wasn't yelling okay???

November 2, 2006
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GG,
She may still be cooking dinner or dealing with the kids. She'll be back soon.

Oh, Mich:
I forgot to say I think it's FABULOUS that your husband is adopting your daughter and she wants it too. I think that's great.

Love,
Cyndra

November 2, 2006
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Starting writing this at 2pm:

OK twins- I see you two are holding down the fort here...got some sleep in between the fricken phone calls, yes...ex. {turned the ringer off but for some reason the phone still rang through the fax machine-gggrrrrrrr.} I wonder if he intentionally does this me (the calls knowing I’m trying to get some sleep) or if he is just that butt ass stupid. Don't know...I have always said there is more going on in that brain of his than just alcoholism-got to be some an undiagnosed mental illness. I know that there is.

Now I will say girls I truly am feeling lots better today. On my drive into work last night- this feeling came over me like it all is going to come to an end for him and things are finally, after all these years, going to turn around. I felt like a normal human being for a moment-…felt real hope. Has anyone heard the song HOPE by Shaggy? I'll sing it later for everyone...it has a cool up beat to it...reggae music...

"In this life you could lead if you only believe...And in order to achieve what you need....

You can never give up

You can never give up

And this hope, Thats keep me holding on.... And this hope That makes me carry on.........."

6pm: Ok finally back to the computer….middle son and his fiancé sound like they just might be my new neighbors- unreal. Met the realtor at the house to check out the inside…and their putting in offer tomorrow once their hear back from the bank. Excited for them (their both only 18)…getting married next year so they’ll have between now and then to fix up their first home : ) And then its one more son to go -yea!!

Thanks GG for clearing that up about the southern bell accent- I giggled when I read that you were from the south just thinking about how you must talk. Oh, and I am one of those true northerner’s here with stupid accent of the “ya’s… & ya know…”. And I know, I know about the kids and the never ending $$ that go out the door. One would think that once the kids get into their teen years that money won’t still be flying out the door on them…not true, not true. It can be loads of stress. Also, the worrying doesn’t end does it??? {Thinking about your daughter going in for testing}. I always said that I couldn’t wait until my sons all hit 18- for some reason I thought all that worrying/stress stuff that comes with being a mother would end….someone told me, “Nope sorry that's really when it just begins…” I was like wtf- “well, that ain’t happening to me…” Ya well come to find out its true. I hope that all goes well with your daughter.

Hey Need- that would be fun to do a Mad Libs in here some night : ) maybe at Jenni’s next party. I have one of those books too - my sons and I still do those…

AND OH GG- just seen a note here I made earlier today….trying to make it out… “too hard on ourselves”…. “I want to hear and like Mich didn’t to ask-I’m crashing…” “pisses me off-don’t want to be a bother…” Ok what was I thinking when I wrote these cat scratch notes out???….think it went something like… GG, ok I think we should add another rule in here when we do our check-ins, to include what’s on the agenda/mind for the day- the good, the bad, the ugly and esp if we are in need of support whether feel that we/ our problems are a bother to anyone else. We all care what’s going on with each other…and if you’re having a shitty day…darn it woman I want to know. It hurts me to think you don’t feel important that what is going on in your life matters- you matter GG, your life matters. Don’t forget that.

Ok I better get this posted… I get going on a thought then get interrupted (middle boy is WAY excited here and the ex won't shut up).

And oh, I hate my exH just in case nobody caught that yet. Tell me someone if I am being ungrateful here...ok so he did get me another vehicle (a 99' Tahoe)...and for some reason he now thinks I should be worshipping the ground he walks on... Think his last outburst was something like..."I'd like to know would you'd be if I didn't take care of you..." My reply was..."Well let's see where I was when you moved in here...hmmmmmn....my guess is that I would be a hell of alot better off than I am right now...I was totally in control of my life, supported myself & sons, and never once in those 5 yrs we were apart asked your sorry ass for anything...because for some reason, I didn't need to..." Right now he is asking me to wash his clothes. Yep amazing how someone can f*cked up your life and then turn it around as if you wouldn't be able to live with out them...and that you owe them...the guy is a trip.

Later girls : )

November 2, 2006
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oh for funny I just posted this and heard someone screaming out my name...alright I'm betting its the twins, would do you think Cyndra?!!

November 2, 2006
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Geez LL, I don't know what to think since I'm not a friend. Just read your post on the other thread. I had to crack a smile when you said GG and Mich were your friends and calling you on the things you WEREN'T saying. Yup that's our twins.

I think that they are worried about, as am I. Hey, I've got the truck gassed up!!! I understand that they are worried, but I don't want anyone of us to obsess when we don't hear from anyone.

I am very angry about your exh taking advantage of you and thinking you should be grateful because he got you a car. He needs a reality check, and I'm hoping he's about to get it and knocked on his ass at the same time. I'm sick of him hurting you, and his presence triggering memories and thoughts that put you into a funk.

I may not fuss like the other two, but believe me I'm just as sick of him as they are. Mich and I are on the same page about kicking his ass.

Mich, can I have some spagetti? Not that I'm hungry but it makes me wish I had taken sauce and meatballs out of the freezer for dinner. I'd have it tomorrow, but I've got salmon.

I'm so tired. I have to see the doctor about this fatigue.

Love,
Cyndra

November 2, 2006
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mich, check in please...

November 2, 2006
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hey sisters, hubby who pissed me off early tried to make up by asking if I wanted to lay on the couch with him to watch one of "his" shows...He said, come watch it, it is going to be good, I think it is something about a sexual predator!........I am now in another room...Oh, the secrets we must keep...

mich, I need you a.s.a.p.

LL, I wish we could talk for once back and forth at near the same time...I feel like your pen pal...

I hate your ex-husband...I don't want him to put one finger on you in any way...and I sure hope you told him to go f*** himself about the laundry...

November 2, 2006
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are any of my sisters around, please?

November 2, 2006
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Hi GG,
I'm here. I don't know if I'm still considered a sister or not. LOL
What's on your mind?

November 2, 2006
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cyndra, why did you just say that about being a sister?

November 2, 2006
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GG,
I was JOKING!! If you read my post to LL I teased her about calling you and Mich friends who call her things.

What's going on with you? I read your comment about your husband wanting to watch television, but you didn't want to watch the program with him.

How are you?

November 2, 2006
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cyndra? mich? h-e-l-l-o-????
LL? need?

November 2, 2006
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Wait I hope Cyndra you were being funny here...cause nope guess you wouldn't be considered a friend- but a sister!! ooooooooo- so do you and I get to fight tonight?! Don't think we'd be as cute as the twins though- we'll leave that to them : )

GG, Sini & I met on one of Jenni's trips a few months back. She is just the greatest woman and was always such a good friend to me. When I did my ramblings on a daily basis, she always had words of support even while she herself was going through a heck of alot. And she is funnier than all get out too! It was Jenni, Sini and I who sunk the USS Hope one night. Jen was in a mood, Sini got me to join in and away we went.

and oh, the ex- is the ex...Truly starting to feel sorry for him...but I just have to continue to stay strong and get stronger. And I really hate being mean to him. The thing is is that he knows I don't need him, knows what I am capable of doing, and he just doesn't like that...so he wants to destroy I guess. A very, very insecure man...but why he has to be like he is to me, I don't know. Wished that we could just be friends for our sons...though I don’t see that happening. I've tried. and Yep now that I have a vehicle in my name again (have one car left in my name-but its only summer drivable)...I'll pay emotionally for it like it's already starting...but I'm getting stronger and come hell or high water he is almost done with me. I might have to do some complaining in here for a few weeks- but if I don't talk about it- he can wear me down in no time- and THAT ain't happening here again.

Ok- now that I have rambled and rambled about my problems- I've got to start getting ready for work : (

I want to apologize, but I won't...I need you girls, and it's amazing the strength I have already felt just by knowing that I have you four out there...WE ALL we get through our current trials in our lives and as hard as it is, we need to know that we are here for each other...and that there are some things in life we can't do alone and as hard as it is to reach out to others (for whatever our reasons) its something ALL of us (GG) need to feel comfortable with. I believe we have covered that no one will get abandoned in here and that we are friends but better we are sisters.

Alrighty then Girls…missed talking to you tonight Mich & GG ( and you too Cyndra!) and you too Need : )

I'm off to get ready for work : ( not feeling the greatest right now...oh well...

November 2, 2006
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did you read what the show was about??? No way...

I am really physically sick, and going to bed soon, never go to bed this early, but I have to work tomorrow...

I have this problem though...I don't like leaving the site without some closure...It is like I have to tell someone bye or good nite and hear it back...don't know...Think LL figured it out, because she made a comment about something similar to someone about me...

worried about my mich...we are both so tenderhearted and she usually doesn't go this long without checking in and have to make sure she knows that I was picking earlier...

You know what cyn...she makes me check in, but I can't seem to get her to check in...not fair...I am telling on her now to you...what are you going to do, my tough middle sis????

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and GG- you can still snuggle up with dear hubby - just barrel on in and don't watch or listen to the tv!! Take the afghan for the night if you need to.

Your pen pal, LL. LOL

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