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Survival of the Afghan....Sisters Live On.....
November 3, 2006
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Mich, get back here now!!! LL, where are you...Cyn, are you hanging on, sweetie?

November 3, 2006
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I didn't take it personally, really. I know that she has a very special bond with you and LL and I don't want her to think I'm forcing my way in if she prefers the two of you. Really, I'm okay. This has NOTHING to do with me. I want Mich to get what she needs.

Mich, come back and talk to us, okay? I'm sorry I misunderstood.

November 3, 2006
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No way in hell, am I going to be left here alone again tonight!!! I can't take it either...I love all of you...when we miscommunicate...we must talk out our feelings...please mich, i would like you to talk...No, i am not telling you how to feel or what to do, I would like you to do this for me...I love you...

November 3, 2006
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Okay GG. I'm still here. I haven't gone anywhere. Maybe you didn't refresh your screen, but I've responded.

November 3, 2006
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cyn, you seem to have your act together, think you need to teach us; okay, i want you to teach ME how to not take things personally...

mich, really need some contact, you don't have to talk,,,

November 3, 2006
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GG, I have learned that it ain't all about me. Okay, I'm still learning that. It's okay some days other days I take everything personally. Today just isn't one of those days.

Mich is right, I'm not that huggy feely. Probably because I don't have children. I think if I had kids I'd be better at the huggy part of friendships.

I'm more concerned about her. I went to read the thread she asked me to and I'm VERY concerned about her. She mentioned wanting to cut herself for the first time ever. That scares the shit out of me. And we have Army talking about suicide yesterday and she hasn't checked in. I only want Mich to get what she needs.

I really do love her and she is like a sister to me. I don't want anything to happen to her.

November 3, 2006
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cyn, this is important, what thread did she talk about cutting?

November 3, 2006
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Son of a bitch, Mich!! GET BACK HERE! I just want everyone to come together here and get along!

Do ya'll know how difficult it is to read each other over the damned internet? We can't see each other's faces and know what the other is thinking.

I really think that everyone here is all trying to be here for each other and trying to support one another as much as they can.

But because we can not SEE each other's expressions, it's easy to misunderstand each other. We can not hear the tone in each other's voices.

So THAT is why there has been so many damn misunderstandings here, lately. So KNOCK IT OFF, YA'LL, and come together and give each other a DAMN HUG!! You KNOW that ya'll care for each other and care! So come together as much as you can in the circumstances that has brought us together in the first place, which happens to be thru this typing! YES, typing SUCKS!! But it's ALL we have to communicate, so we HAVE to make the best of it, and try to understand each other the best we can!

You all have a LOT to offer each other, so don't let it go to waste by reading each other the wrong way thru a bunch of "typing"! It's NOT worth losing each other or the support you have to give each other!

Now I'm sure there have been plenty of posts that has appeared before this one, and ya'll have probably already made up, but I STILL wanted to say this for future references. JUST LOVE EACH OTHER!

November 3, 2006
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thanks jen, i brought that up before, because i am guilty of placing the tone i guess of my choice and interpreting situations...

i know how she is feeling...but mich, you know we love you, so you need to be where you are loved...

November 3, 2006
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Oh, hell's bells!! Jnni's mad and we don't want that.

GG, she posted it on the Why Do I Do It thread.

November 3, 2006
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Jenni,

We're working on the making up part. Mich hasn't come back to kick me in the ass, but I'm sure she will.

I know it's typing, but I am very conscious that she has a very special bond with GG and LL. I respect that and don't want to intrude.

November 3, 2006
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mich, i started cutting myself this year at the damn age of 50...I had so much pain and couldn't release it and sometimes I did it because i could not feel anything and i wanted to feel...MICH, YOU HAVE MADE ME FEEL FEELINGS...It is an addiction once you start...i regret it, have urges when i am alone especially late nights...this site has been helping me keep my mind off those urges...

if you are even considering it, please talk to me...FIRST

November 3, 2006
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Mich, Please come to talk to us!!! We need for you to check in, please? With sugar, whipped cream and a cherry on top?

November 3, 2006
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you ask for checkin's, we are asking for one, please, love you, holding you, not leaving you,,,,

November 3, 2006
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cyndra, and jen, I can't do this...I am crying for her,,I am sick with worry,,,what do we do now? please help me deal with this if she doesn't come back,,,omg

November 3, 2006
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Dammit, Mich!! Where are you? Please check in with GG. I need to hear from you, but you know your twin is connected to you. Please check in with her.

November 3, 2006
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I was only gone for a few...I started a new thread of my own, and did what I felt like I needed to do in the meantime....

November 3, 2006
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She'll be back. Because if she's not, I'll BLOW MY TOP!

Mich, GET BACK HERE AND TALK, DAMN IT! We ALL need you! You know what I'm going thru right now, and you CAN'T just turn your back, now!

November 3, 2006
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Hi all are you still on?

November 3, 2006
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Thank you, Mich! (((HUGS)))

Jen

November 3, 2006
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Haven't caught up on conversation today, just need someone right now...

November 3, 2006
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what a bunch we are...love you army,,,may want to catch up here...

mich, did you read what I just said about cutting in front of the whole world here...I did that for you!!! Please calm down and let's use this support we have.

November 3, 2006
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guess everyone is gone....I even live n the wrong timem xone!!

November 3, 2006
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gg, it's too late..

November 3, 2006
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army, i am here, what time zone are you in

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