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Sunnygrl
July 28, 2004
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we call that **soul sisters*** ones who never met but were somehow connected!!!!...........and sunny is *thunk* a word????lol!!! it sounds so cuttttttteee!!!!!

hugs from camer!!!

July 28, 2004
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Hey Camer!!
**soul sisters** Love it!!!Heck no, thunk is a hick word...LOL And I was raised in sunny California!

Hugs!!!

July 28, 2004
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Ooh! I might have to take that back! It might have originated on SNL, Like: Who woulda ever believed it, Huh? Hey smiles, whatcha think?
Lord knows my mind is fading fast now it's almost 11 PM and this ol gal needs to hit the sheets! BTW...Not to demean anyone by saying "hick" It's a southern term, and I am now southern but really, I was born and raised in California...

Night all!

July 29, 2004
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Sunnygirl hope things are better for you today. Just read this thread and wanted to give you a ((((sunny))))).
I married an ex twice. It was a crazy time for me. I am just glad to hear someone else did it. I have never talked about it. Thought I was the only one.
I guess there are others.....

Always love to read what you post! You are always so honest and straightforward. It helps me.
Thanx.

July 29, 2004
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Hi cak,
Thank you and thanks for the hug! No, you are not the only one. I know several people who married an ex twice.Don't think I am going to make it official again though....

OK..The extent of control smiles and workinonit? Well, he is very possesive and at the time we were married I owned a boutique before I took on the nursing management job. So, we were together 24/7. Not a healthy relationship.I was also way deep in my anxiety, so I depended on him for a lot of things. He jokes a lot, something I can't stand because I'm a pretty serious person when it comes to real life issues. He would try to push me into doing things I didn't want or feel I could do. And then say "I needed him". Well, ol Sunny finally got on meds and felt 1000 times better, so naturally I started to break away, be more independent. That was very threatening to him of course.He seems better now though, he knows I wont take any crap. I know we have both matured and of course since he has been drug free for years and me sober, things just might work out. He did say well, why do you think I came down there to get you? I love you and always have... My response was well, I love you too and always will but right now I'm not "in love" with you and I wont commit....

Sunny 🙂

July 29, 2004
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Sounds promising because you seem to be holding onto your self. Keep up the good work and keep us up to date. Wouldn't want you stepping into the fire without us knowing!!!

July 29, 2004
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Wow Sunny!!! I am proud of you and I belive if you ever want to allow your relationship with him to go further that you aren't the person he married the first time or the second time.. You are stronger and more independent.. My first marriage we both were active alcoholics and he was very controlling.. Might tell ya about it sometime..

I guess what I am saying is that I trust that you will do what is best for you and if it doesn't work out you will learn from it.

You know to me if you learn from something it isn't a mistake but a lesson.

My phone just rang sweetie so I will write more later..
(((((Hugs))))))
*smiles*

July 29, 2004
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Hi Friends!!!
Hugs to you both! Oh heck, you know I wouldn't do anything that drastic with out throwing it out here first...LOL
YIPPEE!!! He is gone until tomorrow evening, but I'm staying with his brother until then. Hmmm...I wonder...
Long story, be back this evening!

Sunny

July 29, 2004
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Yo girl that wasn't fair. Jeez I need a life.....

July 29, 2004
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Workin? What? I'm confused!!!

You ok?

July 29, 2004
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The brother thing and hmmmm I wonder?

July 29, 2004
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Well......
I sure do have a lot of long stories don't I? Exactly why I am going to write a novel...
Brother and I were ..Jeez you wont believe this..It was like..WE were supposed to meet, but a fluke in life brought me to ex instead. It's the truth and to this day, I still wonder... You have to understand..There are 3 brothers, none now married. I was the only real daughter-in-law.This brother is 43, never married and a real catch for the right girl. We just always had a connection, ya know? I have just often thought what if I had met T first instead of M? Guess I'll never know. Anyway...He had a lot of bad feelings about me before I came up here (I was pretty ugly to him a few yrs ago) but now he is glad I am here. M (ex) had to talk him into our mutual agreement, and he seems pretty happy with it now. Does that make any sense?

Sunny

July 30, 2004
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Oh yeah it does, I bet this gets very interesting. Nothing like a bit of triangular comedy to keep you entertained. LOL

I am glad you at least have a good situation going. What was his problem from before if I can ask?

July 30, 2004
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Sunny the mutual agreement was the cooking and cleaning right or is there more to it?? I guess my mind went straight in the gutter.. Gosh that sounds horrible just want to make sure we are on the same page he he...
*smiles*

July 30, 2004
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LMAO Smiles, You are a woman after my own heart. I resisted saying what you said but you know, it had to be said!!!!

July 30, 2004
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LMAO workinonit well sometimes I resist but with you and Sunny I feel comfortable allowing my naughty thoughts to me voiced.. thanks for letting me be me.. 😉

July 30, 2004
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You go girl!! It's good for the soul.

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