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Sunnygrl
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Sunny!!!

I noticed you had mentioned in another thread that you aren't doing to good today. Do you need to talk? Is everything okay? I just wanted you to know I am here if you want to talk or vent.
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July 27, 2004
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Hi You!!!

That's very thoughtful...Gosh, no I am very upset....About a lot of things..I wanted to post about it, but I can't at this point. And it's not all personal, real life issues....
I have a lot of thinking to do. And now, I have a health issue to deal with (again).

Thank you so much for being here! And for just being you....

Hugs,

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July 27, 2004
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SUNNYGRL: i hope you are ok, and know that I am here for you as well as this group, to listen, share and support you!!! my thoughts and prayers are with you.........Camer

July 27, 2004
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Anytime and if you find that you need to talk or vent just know I am here. I don't want to push or prey just want you know I am here if and when you need to talk.. 😉

You have put so many smiles on my face and I have enjoyed your company so much I want to be here if you ever need me to be.. 😉

(((((Big Hugs))))))

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July 27, 2004
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Thank you camer and smiles!

I'm here..Can't even think of sleeping...You two are very special to me and I'm crying..and I need that but I'm also crying because you think enough of me to be concerned and that tells me a lot about both of you I said it before, I treasure the friends I have here...I'll be ok...Just need time, ok?

(((Big Hugs Back Atcha))))

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July 27, 2004
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Oh Sunny, wish I could be right there to give you a huge hug. Nothing like personal contact when we need it. Please know I will be thinking about you too. Thanks so much for helping me and laughing with me and just plain being there. Keep your chin up girlfriend!!!

July 27, 2004
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Morning Friends!

Better this AM...I want to thank you all so much for your support, comforting words and friendship! It means the world to me! I'm not going to be going to Dallas as planned which is one reason I was so upset, besides my health issue. And ex fiance has been doing his best to get to me....Ex hubby and brother are driving me nuts, I miss my pup (yea he's still over there doing his thing, lol) Just a bit overwhelmed with everything yesterday! I'm off to Walmart in a bit for the monthly grocery shopping. Thats when I really load up, takes about 2 hours but time for myself and I sure need it today!

Hugs to you all, and I'll be back later today!!!

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July 27, 2004
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Hugs Sunny!!!

So when do you get the little stud muffin back? He he sounds like he did the job before you even let how long do they need to keep him???

I glad to hear you are doing better. I know what you mean about ex's and I know you are in a situation where you need the denaro so you help out but I can imagine at times it is hard to have to deal with your ex. Not only that but it sounds almost like since he helped you get out of the bad situation he thinks you owe him something. You don't.. Nothing like someone doing a favor for ya with strings attached.. When I know things will be that way I say no thanks although we don't always know strings are attached until after the fact.. You are in my prayers.. 😉

By the way does that mean you will still do the "Thought for the day" for tomorrow then? I was thinking that's why you wanted workinonit and I to help. I can still do it if you want or need me to but wanted to ask in case you didn't.. Hope you have fun at wal-mart 😉

((((HUGS)))))

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July 27, 2004
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LOL! Hi Friend,

Yup, he sure is....Ex said dang I bet he will need a wheelchair or a stretcher when he gets back...The Vet said he needed to stay until she was "finished" but I'm pretty sure we have a litter for Thanksgiving!!
Ex and brother got a talking to today by me..I told them by God I spent 300.00 beans on food (they buy, I cook)you guys eat too much! Ex bitching that he no longer wears a 33 but a 34 and I said see? Told ya!
Anyway, I told them both if they want the good stuff, no more complaints or they can find someone else. I left them with a huge casserole and a salad with both of em grinning and it better stay that way, LOL!

Smiles..I'm really thinking about maybe having something more with ex. He has always been there for me and he loves me dearly. If that does happen (and it would take some time and a lot of thought)He is already wanting me to renovate what he calls "our" house"..I just dont know...Need time to get over ex fiance.I have a court battle with him that will knock the socks off him.

I think you should do Thought for the day tomorrow!! If you want? Let me know!

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July 27, 2004
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Sunny!!!

Sure I will do the "Thought for the day" tomorrow.. 😉

As far as your ex honey. Well first can I ask why you split up? I think that plays a huge factor in the here and now. Also you know what I was wondering the things you do to help and what not well I know that he helps finacially in turn but I still wondered if things wouldn't end up more just because you have been together before and you both share a lot of time together now and you're both single.. Of course you are the only one that knows in your heart. And even at that seems like you aren't rushing into anything. If you don't mind I would like to know more about why you both ended up splitting up to me that could make a huge diffrence..
If I am being to nosey let me know I am just asking to try and help.. and understand where you are coming from.. 😉

So I hope you don't take offense..

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July 27, 2004
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Hi ladies,

I hope I am not being nosey but I wonder myself Sunny. Seems like there could be some growin but maybe you are mistaking friendship for something more?

July 27, 2004
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Hello you two!!!

smiles: I am pleased you will do the daily tomorrow. Thx so much! I look forward to it.

OK ladies...Here it comes (batten down the hatches, lol)

I first met him in 1989. He is 7 yrs older than I. We were both married at the time, just friends. I eventually divorced my girls Dad (Never was very happy)We got together and a few yrs later I married him. Lord this may be long... Anyway, he is disabled so he does not work but has an income monthly. He has no children. I had a drinking problem we were both very codependent I was on the rebound, he was off drugs, I had a very high stress management job,I divorced him....and this is the "condenced form" YIKES! Well, I married him again, and divorced him again....Up and down, back and forth....It's been a long ride!!! There are other factors as well, such as he can be very controlling, and being together 24/7..Dont do it!! I feel like I am writing a novel....

You are not being nosy at all. I appreciate you asking and if I have not bored you yet, ask away!!!

Hugs to you both!! I'll be here a while ok?

Sunny

July 27, 2004
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hi sunny: thanks so much for sharing about your ex hubby....just know that you can write or post as much as you want and we are all here just to listen and help the best that we can!....I do hope you are feeling ok, I know you have alot on your mind, but please do not get too overwhelmed with thoughts, they can sometimes drive you nuts!!! lol!!!
Hope you have a good nites sleep.......here a ((((hug for you)))))...;) camer

July 27, 2004
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Hi C....

Another hug for you tonight!! You are a gem! I'm ok and I hope you are. I will heed your excellent advice and let my mind drift off into the clouds and hopefully get more than 5 hrs sleep. Thank you for the hug, and I hope you sleep well too!

(((((C)))))

Sunny 🙂

July 27, 2004
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Hi Sunny 😉

Wow married him twice.. My thought is I guess do you get along better when you don't live together..

Just curious I work with a lady that divorced her husband and they live in seperate homes yes she is devoted to him and him only they eat dinner together everynight and go on road trips together but for some reason they can't make it work living in the same house.. I am not saying this is the case but was wondering.. I knew of another couple the same way had the best relationship but could not live together.

You aren't boring me either.. I was just wondering I know you are vaunerable right now. And want you decide what to do in your best intrest.
The control thing what extent was that??

Well the thought for the day might be mid morning I hope that's okay if you don't want to wait that long you can go ahead I don't want to hold things up.. Just wanted to think about what to say and then it depends how busy things are at work when I get on here hopefully early..

Well sweetdreams!!!
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July 28, 2004
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Hi ladies,

Computer has been down all morning. Bummer. Finally got onto the thought for the day. Great one smiles!!!..Am I still doing tomorrows? I have one ready to go if so.

Sunny, Control is such atough issue to deal with. What would you say would be different about a third time down this road? I know third time is a charm tough and this is certainly your choice. Just please look at all angles and try to look inside of you and see why you want to go there again. Are you that unhappy alone or is there just something about this guy.....

Be well Sunny and be good to you!!!

July 28, 2004
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Hey there workinonit don't feel bad about the computer thing.. Gosh I think I got to get back on-line last night to make one post. I kept gettting disconnected from the internet I have dial up at home. Anyway so I took it as a sign to go journal before going to sleep so I did.

Sunny I agree with workinonit control is a scary thing. Gosh normally with it comes manipulation and various other things. And don't get us wrong we aren't saying we aren't supporting you but that we can and want to make sure you won't be in a situation that would be bad for you.. Nothing but love sweetie.. 😉

Workinonit well Sunny wanted me to go ahead and do todays so as far as I know yes you will still do tomorrows. I noticed that Sunny hasn't been here today..

I hope all is well with you Sunny..

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July 28, 2004
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I remember Sunny saying she would be away a few days. Hence, you and I doing the thought for the day!!

Well, I hope all is well with you smiles and I'll talk with you later on!!!

July 28, 2004
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Yeah me too!! But last I knew it was cancled well maybe she ended up going after all. hmmm 😉

July 28, 2004
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Don't know for sure but I'll sign on later to see if all is well. In the mean time I'm in for tomorrow unless Sunny is back on track!!

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Well even so I can almost be she wants you to do it.. Cause when she told me she wasn't leaving I asked and she said she still wanted me to do so.. so I would think that goes for the both of us... 😉

I am curious what you have in mind guess I will have to wait until tomorrow.. 😉

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OOH just love that waiting thing. I'll give you one hint...there's a genie involved!!!!

July 28, 2004
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LOL!!!

Yo Friends!

I missed coffee and lunch today! I have been running around like a chicken with her head cut off all day and just now getting online. I gritted my teeth all day and muttered a few obsenities because I missed everyone!Just now starting, so will go down the line of threads and I'll be here awhile. No, I didn't go to Dallas. Ex is going in the AM so I get a break My baby came back today, full of piss and vinegar, ha ha...Sounds like his Mommy....

A Genie ey? Hmmmmmmm....

Hugs!

Sunny

July 28, 2004
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Sunny glad to hear all is okay.. It's weird you start to notice who is on here and how often then when you don't see em' you start to worry. Who would have thunk it life outside of the internet... that's just unheard of he he..

Sunny you're probably here now but I only have a few minutes tonight so I am hoping I can catch up tomorrow..

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OK!!
Have a great nights rest...I missed you all too. I swear you must be a sister I never knew!!! Who woulda thunk it is one thing I constantly say, lol

Hugs *smiles*

Sunny

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