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October 17, 2005
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aw jeez honey!!

Just when I get ready to talk to you guys i get IMed. lol

ok sew, I will have to check your smoking thread. I didn't look at it earlier cuz I am not a smoker, never have been so I can't really add anything. But you being attacked?? That is very unsettling.

Will BRB.

Neshie, you go girl. You know what you want and need and you go for it. You are alll right!!!! [balls of steel ha ha ha]

October 17, 2005
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Regret!!

Good morning to you! Good morning to you!!

You must be in England or Ireland or someplace nearby if you are already starting your day!!

Have a great one!! It is 12 AM on the West Coast of the good ole' U.S. of A.

🙂 bonita

October 17, 2005
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bonita, see the other thread i started to her from me, in response. Have I gone and over reacted? or what?

October 17, 2005
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the other thread is at the top right now

October 17, 2005
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ok I will check out the other thread to Ras from sew. I just finished reading the smoking thread and I really didn't see any attack on you other than that she felt you were ignoring her. But, you were simply slow to respond since you were responding to others.

I think she was ok with that? Correct me if I'm wrong.

OK - BRB I will read the other thread.

October 17, 2005
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Nesh,

From what I get you are saying is that you two are at leaslt talking! You seem to realize that you two have a lot going individually as well as with each other.

I wonder........perhaps this is the turning point? Perhaps this was the test? Perhaps you both now realize that there is a great possibility of reconciliation and awareness of each other. What he did was wrong. He has asked for forgiveness; that has value and merit to his character.

My friend that I see very rarely, we started out with a bad argument on the phone before we ever met. I did not get an immediate response from him. Finally, I threatened to report him. I was defending my mother's legal rights. He was defending his client (the same person). We fought what we thought was right (and it was) on each of our parts. Finally, I apopligized for the threat.

I asked him later after we met and go to know each other better, why did he decide to talk to me again? His answer was very simple. "Becasue you said you were sorry." Simple as that, he accepted and let it go. Now we are friends, two and a half years later.

I recall I had mentioned to you at the beginning of this situation, before the promo stuff he did, that you should not seek so quickly to give up while others were daying to just dump him. I recall also what you said what your mother said about him and you.

So perhaps this is the turning point? I hope so.

October 17, 2005
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Oh! PS I think it is great that you are planning on taking Judaism classes! Reformed?

My mother had a full conversion to Orthodox. Very formal, stiff for me. I r4eally cannot see separating the men from the women and so into the old testament only. The Reformed live for today and yet traditions are practiced. It is a mind boggling complex faith. Mixed with religion and yet separte of nationality of those who do not practice and yet are considered Jewish. Once born a Jew, always a Jew, practicing or not.

October 17, 2005
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I am waiting for bonita's post and response before turning in, past my bedtime and have to see an attorney in am.

October 17, 2005
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Sew,

Your post to Neshie is saying to give the guy #1 the benefit of the doubt. Honey, maybe you should do the same with Ras. I don't believe she would ignore you intentionally. I think she just went offline and to bed. I didn't see her post anything to Ella after Ella had posted her very nice response.

Surely, she would have posted something to Ella. So, sew, (tee hee) lets just wait and see and give her the benefit of the doubt.

Get some sleep, too, hon!!

love ya,

bonbon

October 17, 2005
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Nesh, can you quick give me your take on my dilemna please? my response to ras from sew thread?

October 17, 2005
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yes, but she asked if I was ignoring her on my thread and then said if I did not pay attention to her she would nopt post back to me. What is that about? I give up.

So you think I should chill a bit? I still do not know what she meant and think it cruel of her. Period.

October 17, 2005
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HOney,

I won't deny that she snapped just a little at you and said she would not post to you anymore if you didn't want her to, BUT, I truly believe that she just went to bed.

Maybe she was just a bit cranky and needed some sleep. Talk to her tomorrow, hon. You'll see it will be ok. Ras is not one to hold a grudge. I feel that in my bones.

Get some sleep, girlfriend!!

Talk to you mañana,

bonbon ((((((hugs))))))

October 17, 2005
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P.S.

Look at it this way.... she must really think a lot of you, respect your thoughts and ideas so much for her to get somewhat bent because you had NOT posted. In my opinion, that is somewhat flattering and shows how much she cares about you.

Just food for thought, hon.

October 17, 2005
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grumble grumble toil and troughble...fine, I will chill, thanks, I am a bit sensitive with too much going on [perhaps and should just let it go.

Thanks, bonita chiquita, you are great and I will certainly sleep over it .

You get some sleep too. Thanks for taking the time to read and help out!!!!!!XOXOX

Nite Neshie, wherever you are right now!!!!!!!!XOXOX

very tired and cranky I am, just keep those cigs away from me....yuck yuck yucky

October 17, 2005
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oh bonita! that was sweet of you! you certainly did turn it around into a positive thing! hugs to you, you are so great!!!!!!! Nite, sweetie!

SEW-Z-Q

October 17, 2005
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There you go girlfriend!! No cigs and you are ready to chew nails for breakfast or as a bedtime snack?? LOL

Sleep sounds very good right now. Nite, nite!!!

~~bonbon ;p

October 17, 2005
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Bonita!

Thanks for the response. I live in Italy where the weather is lovely at this time of year- save for the rains.

Sleep well and don't let the bedbugs bite u

October 17, 2005
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sew what thread..was on the phone wiht the guy.

October 17, 2005
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sew-

I think you are probably worrying too much over the Ras thing. Things come out funny online. Just ignore it..who knows what she is thinking. YOu have plenty of supporters here. She not even realize how the dynamic comes off. Just let it go! You have other things to concern you. Everyone here is faceless. If it becomes a pattern that interferes with your progress here, that is another story. Don't let it become your issue.

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