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July 12, 2000
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1) Search out a forgotten friend.
2) Dismiss suspicion and replace it with trust.
3) Write a love letter.
4) Give a great answer.
5) Keep a promise.
6) Deserve confidence
7) Take pleasure in the beauty of yourself and the world.
8) Speak your heart.
9) Be kind.
10) Think positively.
11) Apologize only if you feel you are wrong.
12) Be yourself.
13) Appreciate life.
14) You come first.
15) Eat right.
16) Smile.

July 12, 2000
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Easier said that done !!! šŸ™

July 12, 2000
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oops typos..

Easier said than done !!! šŸ™

July 12, 2000
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Guest guest..not if you sincerely have the willingness to do what it takes......Beautiful.that was beautiful

July 13, 2000
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hmmm..
what if u have a dysfunctional family (abuse, los self-esteem, insecurity), and u've got more than 20 yrs of low self-esteem behind you? (many ppl have this i know. im not saying i went through the worst hell. maybe some have it worse than me. e.g. ppl who cut themselves)
Would it still be easy? It wouldnt...
Its gonna take time. I just cant 'will' everything away. If i've been like what i am uptil now, its not just going to go away just by getting up one rmoing and say to myself ok i'll do this, and then my life will be fine. it cant work that !!

The 10th point said 'think positively'.
do you think its easy for me to start thinking positively when for all of my 20 yrs, i've been thinking negatively ??? is it so easy to change ?? common sense doesnt say that right ? Its breaking the old building down and building a new one. Its gonna take time !!

4th point 'give a great answer' .yea right if only i could do it everytime.
Speak your heart ? no problem!
Be yourself? Piece of cake!
"Dismiss suspicion and replace it with trust" ? Come on this is too easy.

etc.etc.

these are the FINAL characteristics of ppl who have either had an easy life, or those who went through trouble and healed (dont know if thats posible).

for someone who has broken legs, you just can say to him, "grow legs and win a marathon" !!!!

July 13, 2000
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Maybe if we add, "Be honest," Guest would hear it better. Start where you really are. Take a baby step. You'll be a little closer to happy.

On second thought, sometimes being honest hurts like heck! But you gotta go there and through if you want to get anywhere healthy.

No one would accuse you, Guest, of not being honest!:)

July 13, 2000
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I did all of this to give a positive outlook. I didn't write this to think of the negative.

This very easy to do. It takes effort and time. Anyone can do it!

July 13, 2000
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jenjen i didnt get u ..
i'm not honest? in what way ?

July 13, 2000
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Thanks, Beautiful.

This is a nice post......it makes you think about all the stuff you forget everyday because of a hectic world. Even if we just do a couple of these a day and go slow, I think we will notice a big improvement in ourselves.
Sure, the world is not always the happiest place. But, if everyone saw things more positively, it could be a better planet to live on.

Hug to everyone šŸ™‚

July 13, 2000
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Thank you Castle for the wonderful and positive feedback.

July 13, 2000
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guest guest.there's a difference between self will and willingness..self will in the unhealthy form keeps us stuck..sorta like self will run riot......a willingness is to allow yourself the birthright to begin to slowly unravel that which binds you. You may find in time that much of the bing is done by you. Getting to the heart of the matter is nothing less than honesty.....not the shame old shit.

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