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September 26, 2001
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I am a 33 year old woman that has been married for 8 years, my husband and I have no kids. Recently my husband said that he wanted a divorce because he wasn't happy anymore he says that there is too much anger and pain in our relationship. We are not physically abusive to one another but we do mean things to each, sort of like a tit for tat type of game, over the years I felt that we were growing together i thought we were making our way to be on the right track. the problem is that I do meaner things to him than he does to me and now he's upset about it. I have a very bad temper and I say things that I don't really mean to people (like his best friend) that I really shouldn't, he says that I need some type of psycological help because he thinks its not normal for someone to get and feel as upset as I do. So I currently looking for I guess a theraphist or someone to help me rebuild my marriage and someone who would also be able to help my husband deal with his issues so that we can move on. We both really love each but we are getting to the point were we both feel that this isn't working and that we don't want to be 40 or 50 years old and having to start over again. Is there any help/hope for us?

September 26, 2001
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Well it could be that you have a hormonal imbalance and need to be on medication to regulate your emotions. It also sounds like you need some lifestyle modification. You have to love yourself before you can love someone else. You do need to find out why you have so much anger and work on that. Work on you and see what happens.

September 26, 2001
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Hmm there is always hope if there is intent. I like that book Relational Rescue, look at you, let him look at him, and then take the issues to a third party, a physical isn't a bad recommendation. Could be stress, or bad match. What are you really angry at????

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