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soo sooo sad
March 10, 2008
2:05 pm
lost in love
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I am 33 years old and just realized that I am codependent. I was in a marriage for 13 years and once the marriage ended I became so sad and withdrawn. It was hard for me to function and I felt like I needed my ex to survive. We did everything together and now I felt what was I supposed to do that I was alone. I entered into another relationship very quickly, because the thought of being alone was too much for me to handle. Now I find myself insecure, questioning his love for me all of the time and just have a plain uneasy feeling all of the time. I feel like he loves me and wants to be with me but when he is not around I am paranoid and thinks that he does not want me. I am trying to work on finding a happy medium, but I still find myself in the same rut. Only being/feeling happy when we are together. The weight that I feel is on me is so strong that sometimes I just want to give up.

March 10, 2008
9:28 pm
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don't give up. When you are alone and sad do something that you enjoy. A bath, a manicure, lose yourself in some book or TV.

March 10, 2008
10:01 pm
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I was married for 19 years and when it ended(she cheated)my world turned upside down. I withdrew from everyone for about 2 years. Don't do that to youself like I did. When I finally came out of it, the first woman I was with I thought was the love of my life(rebound). It was me finally feeling again and she was what I wanted her to be. She is still a very good friend and someone I can talk to. Find friends and make new friends as many as possible. Feel good about being a friend to people. Being coda is not the end of the world if it is not abusive for you or to you. Keep talking and don't give up, go for one day at a time.

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