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sometimes I'm so lonely I feel like I rather be dead
July 3, 2007
12:53 pm
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Hey, just here to complain. I have been trying to negotiate a settlement on my stolen car and it is so frustrating. I have never had an insurance company make me an offer with no bargaining room but they aren't budging and I can't replace my vehicle for what they are offering me. I am so frustrated.

This is actually the thing that started the breakup between me and jackass. I live in Norman (Boomer Sooner) and commute to North Okla City and the day my car was stolen I couldn't get him to come take me to work, so a friend drove me up here. Then I couldn't get him to give me a ride home so a girl here dropped me off at HIS office so I could ride back to Norman with a friend of mine who is one of his coworkers. I felt like I was just shuffled from car to car that day.

Then I was talking to him about the whole situation, settlement, etc., and I said I needed a husband to help me take care of these things. He was silent. I told him not to worry, that I know he wouldn't be any help anyway. We talked a bit and I told him I didn't want to spend any more time with someone who can't or won't tell me he loves me and that I have basically given up any hope of having a child if I choose a long term relationship with him. He said I was right, he does not want any more kids and he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship. I asked if this was something we should try to work out or should we break up or was there anything to break up and he replied that he didn't think there was anything there to break up...in other words, we don't have a relationship at all according to him.

He has continued to pursue me, calling and emailing until yesterday when I called him a stubborn selfish jackass and that hurt his little feelings. He then said "you keep beating this same subject when you know where I stand and that is not going to change right now. I know it is probably wrong to keep being f buddies since I am not budging on this subject." I did not reply to that email and then he had the nerve to call me last night.

What's with all the push/pull? He tells me I'm not getting what he's saying but then he keeps pursuing. I am so frustrated. I'm on day one of no contact. It has been really hard to not email or call him when I have had so much trouble with the insurance company today.

Sorry to blab on and on but I am so sick of him acting like I don't get it when he won't leave me alone. I know it is because I allow him to do this, I just don't know how to stop.

July 3, 2007
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Aww, Ella, so nice to see you tempted by a male company with a sweet face. Who knows, he might be afraid of being hurt, too! Next time, I´d say go for it and invite the man over, somehow. Especially if are in a two-some.

Congrats on your artsy socializing! Id love to be a fly over your paints and drawings.

Well, my Frisky is moved into his female friend´s basket. He didnt mind all the pink. His embarassed face said it all. I think he has bad intentios!

That was him typing again 😉 The little kitty is not far behind having started her jumps already.

Ah, don´t try to understand me, Im just rambling...


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