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someone please respond to "day 3 of no contact" last post. I need some support.
February 25, 2005
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help me out guys. I'm having crazy thoughts.

February 25, 2005
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What's going on?

February 25, 2005
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what can we do to help?

February 25, 2005
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bring this back to the top because I need all the feedback and support I can get right now. I cant stop crying and somethings gotta give here. I feel like I am going insane.

Please read "Day 3 of no contact."

February 28, 2005
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I read your thread. Is the same thing happening to you now that was happening when you started that thread?

Love,

Ren'ai

February 28, 2005
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Alright here's some tough love for you uptoole.

HE WANTS A BREAK he doesn't feel it is right, right now. YOU need to give him that space, I know it is hard for you and you have been doing a great job thus far, that I know of, but honestly, if you really care About HIM, and when you care about someone their needs come over yours, then you would not even want to contact him because he asked you NOT to.

It is hard. Trust me I know, I am there right now, but I will respect my ex's wishes even though he never respected mine. That is what makes me different from him. It isn't just about what I WANT.

Your ex sounds like a good guy. I think that most people just need that time to heal.

February 28, 2005
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Hi Everyone,

I did good for 4 days and he contacted me last night, had a good talk but it was strange, almost uncomfortable cuz we are not together. He said he almost called me last the night before to ask me "what are we doing, we love each other, come over, ect..." but he said he knew it wouldn't have been the right thing to do. He's right, it wouldn't have been.

I am doing a bit better today, I know it's only cuz I heard from him and I know that he still loves me and hasn't totally given up on us. I ended our conversation by telling him not to rule out any possibility and I told him I love him very much and I would talk to him again sometime.

It's quite sad, actually. I grew up thinking that if 2 people love each other enough, they can get thru anything. I know now that it's not true. That in of itself was a devastation for me. How could I have been so disillusioned all of these years?

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