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Soar ... for all esp. Starry and Magga
October 14, 2004
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Listening to Christina Aguilera. The song is called "Soar". The chorus goes...
In life there's gonna be times when you're feeling low and in your mind insecurities seem to take control. We start to look outside ourselves for acceptance and approval, we keep forgetting that the one thing we should know is don't be scared to fly alone, find a path that is your own, love will open every door, it's in your hands, the world is yours, don't hold back and always know all the answers will unfold. What are you waiting for? Spread your wings and soar!

I was feeling low and have to admit this made me feel a little better. Hope it does for some of you too. (grin)

October 14, 2004
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Patarino,

Thank you for sharing that! I teared up as I read because that's exactly how I've been feeling lately - "in your mind insecurities seem to take control. We start to look outside ourselves for acceptance and approval."

I was flying alone for awhile and I wasn't scared. But then I had a pretty big setback and now I find myself scared and with no discernable path in front of me.

Thanks again, it really hit home for me and got me thinking.

By the way, don't think I've seen you here before so welcome to the site! 🙂

lam

October 14, 2004
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Iam
Hiya and thanks for the welcome. Yesterday was my first posting. What a wreck I was.... I sure do feel welcome and understood here. It is a great place to share and just be honest.
I am glad the song moved you. It is really a great song for the moment huh? Sorry to hear about your setback. Just hang in there a type away. We will listen. I too am at my wits end ... but just being here makes me know there is hope. My moods go from black to white to gray dozens of times a day. At this moment I am white ... posting and listening to music. Tomorrow will come and then the day after. We will all still be here ... the threads we weave make a beautiful blanket!! Wow ... I should listen to this CD more often ... heh! A little poetic???

October 14, 2004
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You posted yesterday huh? hmm I'm really behind on some threads! Well you're sounding better if you were a "wreck" yesterday, glad you're finding the support and understanding you need right now. Yeah those few lyrics completely captured my mood at the moment, well, the more negative parts anyway. lol Thanks for the encouragement, I'm trying my best to hang in there with all the emotional crap I've been feeling and then I was involved in a car accident about 1 1/2 weeks ago so now I'm physically hurting too. My moods have been fluctuating as you described. Oh well, tomorrow's another day right?

Yes that CD does seem to be inspiring you! lol You know, I didn't really care for her at first, just thought she was another teeny bopper, prepackaged, overproduced "singer" but I actually listened to one of her songs one day and I was like, wow. Then I heard her sing live and said holy crap! That girl can blow! lol But I also like the lyrics in some of her music, strong, confident and powerful. Like "Fighter" that one always makes me feel better, "Can't Hold Us Down" another good one.

hmm thank you, feel better just thinking about 'Fighter' 🙂 Got to find it in me again.

lam

October 14, 2004
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Patarino,
Thanks for posting those lyrics! I made a CD a few weeks ago and added Christina Aguilera's Beautiful, because I have low self esteem and think I am ugly. That song sounds like it can help me too, now that I'm alone. I am glad you're having a good day today- so am I. It's been hard, but I feel strong today.

Iam,
Sorry to hear about your car accident! I wish you a speedy recovery. I also didn't think much of Christina Aguilera at first, but man, can she sing! Holy crap. 🙂
(((Patarino))) (((Iam)))

October 14, 2004
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Hi art angel,

'Beautiful' is actually the first song I listened to all the way through, I really like the lyrics in that one too. That's also the one I heard live and wowie, that girl's got a naturally powerful, distinctive voice.

I do hope when you listen to those lyrics you can focus on and SEE what she's singing about...inside of YOU. I've read some of your posts before and you're not ugly, and no I do not need to know what you look like to say that. 🙂 (((((art angel))))) Be good to yourself.

Thank you for the well wishes! I hope to be feeling better sometime soon.

Well I wish both of you ladies a good night, sweet dreams and talk to ya'll soon,

Much love and hugs,

lam

October 14, 2004
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thanks for posting the wonderful words, i have yet to hear the song on the radio, but will keep my ears open for it, and wow, it has such meaning!!!

October 14, 2004
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Iam, Camer-
Thanks so much. Camer you're so sweet to read my ramblings. I feel so lost sometimes.
Iam, thanks for reassuring me. I wonder if thinking I'm ugly is like an anorexic thinking she/he is fat. Not that I'm saying I'm actually beautiful, but that is what other people tell me. I look in the mirror and I hate what I see. I need to stop that in order to be healthy, happy and to let a person in to date, because I DO want to date, I just am not self confident. hmmph. gotta work on that.

October 15, 2004
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so i went out on a date with this really nice guy, who shares my common wants for the futures

i spent the whole time thinking about my ex....and the whole ride home in tears just wanting my ex back...why is it that way? .it is obvious this guy is so nice and likes me..but i don't care...i just miss my ex.......tommorow is day 7 of no contact .. i have never gone more than day 7...i dont know if i will...gosh, i miss him even more tonight...and this day was going so good.

October 15, 2004
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Starry,
Stay strong! Comparing the new guy to your ex is natural, I'm sure I will be doing that if I ever get a date sometime.. hahaha. You can make it-- just think of how strong you are! Your ex doesn't even deserve to hear your voice ever again. That's what keeps me from calling sometimes...

October 15, 2004
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Starry ... stay strong. I WISH I was you right now. I wish that I could say I had 6 days behind me. I wish that I had your strength. I want so bad to be able to do it too. I bet this date you went on was just really really different. I can't imagine. I know if it was me I would be looking for the chaos. The thing we forget is that there isn't supposed to be any. We are just conditioned to function only through chaos. Try to enjoy the lack of it. Just hang in there. I know I am not one to talk but I want this for you so bad. No matter what ... we are here. (grin)

October 15, 2004
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About Chrstina Aguilera ... I think she is a real bitch, stuck up and snotty. However, she is a wonderful song writer and an even better singer. She knows how to pick songs that work for her. The "stripped" CD is great. That is where the song "Soar" comes from. Her first one was really good too. A very lot of the d=songs on both CD's are meaningful and powerful. Give a listen. My other fave of the week is the soundtrack from Moulin Rouge.

I have tons of songs saved on my computer from my IPOD. I no longer have my IPOD because my partner threw it in the swimming pool ... that was the day the police came ... Bad day #396 ... but thats a whole nother story!

October 15, 2004
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Patarino...how are you today. I know this is a tough day for you.

any thoughts on how you are going to spend it?

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