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So, what would you do.
June 23, 2007
8:47 pm
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Thursday night R gave me money to go to the store to buy stuff for dinner. I also bought a bottle of wine which C and I drank. Tonight I had marinated a london broil (which I provided)and we were going to grill out. C wanted a glass of wine and I asked if I could have one too. He threw up what did you do with the bottle of wine I paid for the other night. I told him C and I drank it. He started going on and on about paying for the wine, so I took out my wallet, figured the tax on a 12.99 bottle of wine and gave him 14.03. Well that didn't go over well at all. He threw the money at me and told me to get the F out. I left. He came over and threw the money in my back door. Then he called me on the phone which I was stupid enough to answer and told me he wanted a girlfriend not a dependent and that was the reason we weren't going out as much as we used to. He was expected to pay for everything and if I paid he felt guilty because he knew I didn't have any extra money. Then threw it in my face that I had blown through 30,000 dollars I made off the sale of my house and that if I wasn't making enough in real estate that I needed to get a real job.

Bitsy

June 23, 2007
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Bitsy... That would be the end of us. He is abusive and demeaning and I wouldn't put up with that even if I was poor and living on the streets.

June 23, 2007
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What would I do? I would put him to the curb. He sounds like a big jerk.

June 23, 2007
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Dear Bitsy,

R. sounds like a very angry man. How could you even consider staying with someone who uses such verbally degrading language like that? You asked the question "what would you do?" Well, the answer is very simple. I would leave the relationship and count my blessings that I got out in time. Relationships are about love and respect. He has shown neither here. He is treating you like an animal. Please don't allow this to continue.

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June 24, 2007
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Get out now.....it will only get worse.
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

June 24, 2007
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I am moving next Saturday so I won't be so near him. What hurts about this is that I have never asked him for anything and always felt that what he did was freely given. I also know that the reason he and C are friends is because her ex was physically abusive and pushed her into a pool at a party. R got out of the pool and told him that was no way to treat a woman then hit him. So if he was that way once upon a time why is he this way now?
I know I need to move on but there is something that keeps me wanting to be with him and I can't figure that out either. If I were one of my friends I would be dragging me away from him kicking and screaming, so why can't I do it for myself.

Bitsy

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