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so jealous
May 31, 2005
1:35 pm
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soemotional
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here it is...

i was in a relationship for 7 years..we broke up...he told me had a thing for a girl we both work with...and would flirt all the time with her in front of me...he would hang out with her all the time etc....he decided he still wanted to be around me..come over to cuddle...no relationship just time together...i took what i could get...but he still hangs outs with the other girl and claims there's nothing to worry about... she's the only one he hangs out with....

i know he and i aren't together and all three of us have to work together..so why do i still care...why do i let him keep cuddling me....he and i were best friends and i felt like he ruined that by picking a girl to be with that we both have to see everyday...and what's worse is the girl is really nice!!!!

I need help...i don't want to care about him anymore but i can't help calling him every day and he calls me too but then tells me his life is none of my business???? help!!!anyone????

May 31, 2005
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I really don't have much advice for you except to tell you that you deserve much better than the treatment you are receiving....from him as well as yourself.

Perhaps you could read up on co-dependecy and see if the "shoe" fits. If so, get help for yourself because you really do deserve better.

Also, this site is a wonderful place to come for support, encouragement and wisdom so...keep coming.

Good luck to you, I hope this helped.

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May 31, 2005
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sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. Sorry pal.....I would not put up with that. He's not respecting you and what is he telling the other girl? Talking crap Im sure. Remember this...Guys and girls usually do not remain friends without "something" happening. Sorry to say it BUT....
You deserve better....

May 31, 2005
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Take your keyboard into both hands, and beat yourself over the head with it until you pass out.

When you awaken, Repeat earlier process.

Do you really think that one day he's just going to wake up out of this coma and see you and realize he's in love with you?

This is life, not the movies.

If you have to, use the keyboard technique as therapy each time you think about him, perhaps you will begin to associate this kind of pain with what years of continuing this empty and useless preoccupation will leave you with....more pain.

You can do better, don't cheat yourself--

June 1, 2005
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lou....LOL- you are funny. I think I might try the keyboard thing. Pretty funny.

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