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SO Frustrated!
September 13, 2005
5:55 pm
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I am so FRUSTRATED! I have recently become reunited with my husband after a year of seperation. No Counseling..just winging it. Here is one BIG problem. My husband relies on me for EVERYTHING. I mean everything. Plus, now he has enrolled me in a particular school to have a particular career that makes lots of money so I can contriibute financially. It is not my career of choice. But my children and I can not oppose him. He always gets his way or we all pay. I can't leave him again. I tried to make it on my own I have no support system. I couldn't qualify for any State assistance because I worked! How DO people get over on the system!? My husband is self employed so even if I divorce him...I can't financial support from him because he can just stop making money...we live in a non alimoney state..anyway, I feel screwed all the way around. I feel like I am going crazy.

September 14, 2005
12:17 pm
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Your husband is controlling. YOu ahve a right to live your life as you see fit. You should not have to live with a man because that is all you can do. A marriage should be supportive of each other. This is emotional abuse from your husband. Can you possibly think of other alternatives until you can get on your feet? Share housing? Find a relative that can help you? Low income housing? He is required to pay child support, that is the law. Whether he works from home or not, it is required and the state can require him to get a job. Please don't take his word as the last word. It is abuse when he threatens you like this. You deserve better than this.

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